ok so there is this guy and were friends..and in 6th grade he asked me out (i'm now in 8th grade) and we've been buds ever since, when he asked me out i said "umm ask me later" because i knew that if i said no he would be mad- and i really don't want to loose him- but if i were to say yes then if we broke up we would like hate each other and like i said i don't want to loose him. and i think he like me because he comes over to "hang out with my little brother" and like he kept asking my bro "what did she say" like he was whispering so i knew he was talking about me! and all my friends say he likes me and they say he acts differently when i'm around. and he is always flirting with me! but my friends don't like him and he don't like my friends! so here are the real questions. does he like me? (my friends say he's quieter and always flirting with me when i'm around!). and how do i get him to ask me out (cause i really like him) and would it be weird with my friends and him if we went out?
2006-11-20 12:27:23 · 14 answers · asked by Haley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy is kinda like mean to my friends like he calls them loud and obnoxious and fat and to be honest my friends like are mean to him
2006-11-20 12:35:49 · update #1
If you want him to ask you out, I would suggest telling one of your friends to "accidentally" let it slip that you like him and see what happens the next day. It might be weird with your friends and him if you went out with him, but your friends will get over it if they know how much you really like him.
Good Luck!
2006-11-20 12:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Moll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you put the brakes on it the first time he asked. So the ball is in your court. You are going to have to let him know that you are interested and will say yes.
But I don't think you really want to be with him. From the sound of your question, I think you just like the fact that he likes you and that all your friends can tell. If that is the case, you will end up breaking up him and you'll lose a good friend. Not to mention make friend chose sides.
So unless your sure you really want to be with him, just leave things the way they are.
2006-11-20 12:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by jules_xcess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,if a guy likes you and if your friends like you also, they all will get along to make sure you are happy. A friend is supposed to respect one's choices. Second, if you like him, why don't you invite him to a movie, ad flirt back (not too much though). He will maybe try to make a move. Third, you need to know that being with someone is not always something you both agree on like" we are now bf / gf. It's more like a feeling of being with that person.
Go get your boy if you really like him
peace
2006-11-20 12:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 13:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by salguero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think that if u really like him then who cares what ur friends think u should tell them that u like him and thats too bad and to the guy u like u should just say Its later and I know the answer for it...and if he doesnt know what ur talking about then u should be like remember what u asked me in 6th grade? yea I know the answer to it ..and then say what u want to say...
2006-11-20 12:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by aLl I WaNtEd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frist dont care what ur friends think well ask you r brother to convice him to ask you out and he does like you trust me.
2006-11-20 12:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i think he really likes you but its really up to you if you wanna be with him because no one knows how you reaaly feel about this guy...
its not weird when you went out with him coz' you love him and he loves you too...
dont listen to what others think and say about you and him what matters is that you both love each other...
besides you should decide what you think is best for you...
2006-11-20 12:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by cLaud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
you could always ask him out
(eww... no that'd be wierd! right? wrong. it's normal. it's natural. it's encouraged, we're all fair game too you know)
lets see... my best friend and I dated...
we broke up. she's still my best friend.
so... breaking up can be done nicely.
and how do you know you'll end up breaking up?
maybe you'll stay togather. I know people who started dating in 7th grade. they're married now. they have two kids.
toodles.
2006-11-20 12:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he likes you. dont turn him down just because your friends dont like him. you know he is great so give him a chance. if it dont work out you still can be friends no matter what.
2006-11-20 12:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by curtis b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he probably does and u ask him out don't wait until he does or u can just be talkin 2 him in a conversation nd ask he who u like if he asks y just say im wonderin . well maybe to ur friends it might be wierd but hey who cares wat they say !!
2006-11-20 12:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by i FOUND MA PRiNCE CHARMiNG♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋