Im 21 years old and im not fat and i dont think im ugly im just average...I have a 18 month old little boy...And now that i have him men just dont seem that intrested unless they thinki they are going to get you know what.....Will i ever find a nice man? im upset its not fair i would love to meet somone that would love me and my son.....
2006-11-20 11:47:13 · 3 answers · asked by momma2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are at a point in life, because of your situation, where you can truly weed out the men from the boys. If you are looking to find a guy who could possibly be the one to spend the rest of your life with, then I think it's safe to say you don't want some guy who just wants to have sex with you, right? Well it's obvious the pool got a lot smaller. Well I just want to tell you that there are such guys who don't just want sex and honestly just want to be with with someone sweet (and I'm sure you are).
I can tell you this because I was in a relationship a couple of years ago with a really nice girl who also had her own little girl. I was 21 at the time and she was completely gorgeous, but I truly did not want to have sex with her, at least not for a very long time....I truly just wanted to be with her. I honestly felt that she was really sweet and her daughter was wonderful, and even though I was young (still am :), I was totally willing to be a part of her daughters life if it meant I could be with her...even possible getting married and taking a father role, if it led to that.
All I'm really trying to say is that "Yes", there are guys out there that will love you and your son with no strings attached. Just be patient.....and more importantly, for your son, be picky ;)
2006-11-20 12:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by sword of light 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were single I would be afraid to date. I have 4 kids. I know most men are decent and good and would never molest a child but it scares me to death to think I could put my kids in jeopardy.
There are plenty of guys out there who would marry a woman with my kids. My step father married by my mother when i I was 18 months old, my brother was 3 and my sister was 5 . So it can happen
Good luck and don't rush in to anything.
2006-11-20 19:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as advice I give you it is that in the moment that your less you wait for yourself a very special man will appear for you your don't worry you will already find a very special man
good luck!!!
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2006-11-20 20:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by sexigirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋