I met someone who I care about a lot, and our relationship has gotten pretty serious. There is only one problem, our parents ran into conflict in high school and have basically forbid us to see each other. They don't know that we're still together, What do I do?
2006-11-20 11:41:14 · 6 answers · asked by Melanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be truthful with your parents. You are not them and you do not own the problem, they do. It is not fair to hold you hostage to their anger against someone else.
You bf needs to confront his parents as well and let them know, you are seeing each other and will continue to do so .. If they are holding onto something from highschool , they definitely have issues... Do not take on their personal baggage...
You have your own lives to live.... Do not be their pawns, you will loose the relationship if you listen to their pettiness and take sides....If you are serious you must be of age to make your own decisions... be brave and strong.....stand your ground......
2006-11-20 11:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try both talking to ur parents. If something happened to them WAY BACK in high school then it prob needs to be dropped. Just bc u wanna date each other doesnt mean they have to stir up old problems. They had the issues, not u 2. Explain to them its not ur fault this happened & they should respect ur decisions as well. Its not fair to not let u see each other just bc they cant forgive & forget after this long.
2006-11-20 11:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's quite dramatic!
Tell your parents that you are dating this guy. A high school conflict shouldn't be the reason you don't break up. Don't make this into such a Romeo and Juliet story.
2006-11-20 11:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear of Romeo and Juliet? Read it.
There's not much your parents can do about you seeing him at school, but other than that, just hold on. If it's true love, you'll last until you have legal say (18 years old)
2006-11-20 12:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by WolfMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Just go with the flow. If you are really passionate about him and really have feelings for him, then you should just follow your heart. She spoils you to an extent and you get what you want. She makes food for you. She talks to you.
2006-11-20 11:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-20 11:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋