It was a saturday night and my buddy,his girl, and me went back to my place after a party. We were all drunk and I had some E at this party along with my buddy girl(she really wanted me to) but he didnt take any or even knew we did it(there not dating but just see each other alot)We had some fun but didnt have sex but still mess around, it was pretty clear to my friend that his girl was all over me. The next day my buddy left around 7:00pm but the girl he brought stayed with me the whole day and slept over with me again because her mom kick her out and was yelling at her and making her depressed. We talk for a long time and she really likes me and wants a guy who is not a liar/cheater. She doesnt like him anymore at all and has basically fallin in love with me. She going to tell him that she doesnt like him anymore and just wants to be friends and nothing more. I dont know how iam going to tell him?? Or even brake the news I had sex with her the night she slept over.. Iam confused :(
2006-11-20 11:37:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if they aren't going out,i don't c anything wrong with that unless he said something that made u think twice about going with that girl.when she tells him,best 2 stay out of their convo.i think u did the right thing by letting a "friend" slep over.
2006-11-20 11:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well personally I don't like this situation. Plus the fact that alcohol and drugs were involved.
Nonetheless, do you really want a relationship with a girl that jumps from one man to the next? Ask yourself. Says alot about her. So what happens when a better guy then you comes along, you don't think she will jump ship for a cruise, hmm?
All kinds of alert are ringing in my head.
As for your friend, what kinda values do you have? The girl is just a right now thing, your friend, I imagine is longer if not forever, its gotta count for something.
I suggest you talk to your buddy, tell him the truth, if he is your buddy and what you said about him and the girl is true then he will understand. Plus you owe him that much as a buddy. Right?
Then you might be able to keep him.
And by the point of this question I think you value him more then the girl, or at least you should.
Good luck.
2006-11-20 19:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by lor3d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? You're going out to parties, doing drugs and hooked up with a girl that you friend was in to?
To top off all of this wonderful behavior, you let her stay at her house after she got kicked out of hers? Does this strike you as normal behavior? You really want to associate yourself with this girl and you're willing to lose your friend for it?
You really need to reevaluate your priorities.
2006-11-20 19:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Badstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a jerk
you shouldnt not let females come in between your friendship with your friend. you are not a very good friend and your selffish and I think its nasty to sleep after your friends especially since she seems like a slut who is out of control. Get your self and your priorities together and stop doing drugs and being stupid... frankly if i was your friend ik would not trust you or want to associate with your backstabbing self.
2006-11-20 19:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
geez....keep it simple, ditch the girl and always remember: BROS BEFORE HOES
2006-11-20 19:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tray Augustus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋