Ladies: Can you tell me how this went?
I met someone and we went out for coffee. We basically talked for a while and she did most of the talking and hugged each other goodbye. She wanted to go out again soon, and even asked if we could have done dinner tonight but neither of us were able to. Before we hung out she asked that I text messaged her beforehand and than after we left she asked me to call her to let her know I got home ok.......
Then I called, she asked me if I got home fine and I told her I missed her already she said "awww, you're sweet" and something about not hearing that everyday and that she took it as a complement and then she was making dinner or something so she had to go.
Now did it sound like it went ok, and do you think there's something I would do to not relegate me to instant friend status?
Was it ok we didn't kiss? And when should I contact her again to go out for dinner ?
2006-11-20 11:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So far ur almost gonna be in the "lets just be friends" category. dont call her so much or tell her things that a friend would say. in a day or two, call her up....see what shes doin, ask her for a movie at your place or hers, and see where it goes. depending on how she is will determine what u will have to do. She could be the type that takes a long time's worth of work OR she could be ready for ya but waiting for you now. :)
2006-11-20 11:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tray Augustus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it went well. Give her a call in a few days - maybe Friday evening or Saturday afternoon after Thanksgiving and ask her out for the middle of the week. I always liked the anticipation of wondering when I would get the next call. But, if he called too soon, I got the feeling that he may be clingy or desperate (not exactly nice or reasonable, but that's how I felt.) If he took too long, I thought he may be playing games.
Also, I think that it's fine that you didn't kiss. Save it for the dinner date, after a few glasses of wine (are you old enough to drink??)!
Dating sucks until you find the person who makes it easy! I hope she is the one that makes it easy! Good luck and Happy Thanksgiving!
2006-11-20 11:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by MT Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a little needy to me... texting right away. calling to make sure you got home... How old are you? Do you have a bad driving record??? I think she was pushy and I think you will have your hands full with her. She did most of the talking and you let her......... She obviously wants to be in control..... She is already sizing you up, like the spider does to the fly... be careful she might run you right over. I would wait until mid week to contact her if you want to go on a date, no sooner, not every day texting etc...... that is too much, too soon, too scary......
Take charge here and get some control or you will be lost in the maelstrom........
2006-11-20 11:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal to me. I think you're just nervous and reading to much into what was actually a normal situation. Just call her whenever! If she treats you like you're only friend, bring that up, and let her know you were thinking about more than that. Us women like to know the way it is...no beating around the the bush. Good luck. Oh, by the way, if it doesn't work out, it still doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, Just the wrong girl.
2006-11-20 11:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time dont smother her you will scare her off maybe call her or send her a sweet text in a couple days just to let her know you are thinking about her...then cutely tell her your still waiting on that raincheck for dinner...she'll love it! Sounds like it went pretty good.
2006-11-20 11:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don`t like to kiss on first date,than again some do.
When a woman says(awwwww sweet) she took what you said personally and thought you were a nice guy*keep up the good work,if you play your cards right,you may make it to second base,* (wink)
take care and do take care of her,as women like to know their man will be there for them.
2006-11-20 11:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by sunflower2052002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its ok u didnt kiss u shouldnt kiss on a first date so thats good u only hugged and yes she likes u and u obvessly do 2 so call her and go out
2006-11-20 11:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzy_bubbles_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's okay the kissing didn't happened. Contact her again when she and you both have available time.
2006-11-20 11:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋