2006-11-20 11:14:33 · 7 answers · asked by aha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if u remember this, it will help u figure out who's a "good guy" and who's not (hopefully) :)
men use love to get sex
women use sex to get love
as u can see, men and women differ GREATLY in what they want.... we play these games, we dance around each other trying to find a good girl or guy, someone who's worth hanging around. so, if u know that a man will SAY "i love you" or do things to make u happy, and u give him sex too early, it is quite possible that he won't stick around. so, how exactly can u "make sure" he will stick around? well, the way i see it is, if u don't give them sex right away, until ur ready at least, and he still waits for you and takes care of u no matter what, he is a good guy. and a woman who gives sex up right way is seen as too "needy" or too "easy"... not very positive things. So, a guy might want to "hook up" with those types of girls, they don't exaclty wanna marry them!
my advice to u is to make sure u grow into a Confident, Smart, Beautiful, Independent, and Happy Woman..... someone who has a LOT to offer to any relationship. have some expectations from urself, and from ur partner.... the one who accepts and respects you and Works with you will be the one to Stick with.... sex should Enhance a relationship, not BE the reason why you got together.
good luck, and stick to what you think is right. i am 26 yrs old, w/ a boyfriend for almost a year now, and we both decided to wait until marriage. so sex isn't the problem.. it's finding someone who respects you, and who u respect. take care~
2006-11-20 11:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many others have said, not all guys are eager to have sex. Im 17, and easily still a virgin.
You will need to lose your virginity, but ONLY when it is completely your decision to. Dont let guys pressure you into doing it. When your ready, your ready.
Since it is most likely that you want to lose it with someone you love, this is a great test. If they wait for you to be ready, you know they care about you more than for your body.
2006-11-20 22:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by redswimmer15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men believe that. You just need to find one that is a quality person. Granted they are hard to find & some of the ones you find fake that. So just becareful about who you talk to.
It's the small things that'll pick out the good from the bad. If you see someone doing something small (but large) let me explain. A guy opening a door for someone. That's the simplest example I could come up with.
If you see someone doing something like that. (Which you don't see alot anymore.) Talk to them a little bit. See if they listen to you.
Things like that will get you the result you're looking for.
Have a good day. Hope this helps.
2006-11-20 19:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, atleast it's not true for all the guys out there. Just keep one thing in mind, and that's to not let this pressure you into doing something you're not ready for and don't want yet.
2006-11-20 19:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by kz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not true. In fact if you expand your circle of friends you will find that many young men are just as terrified and will wait for the right time!
2006-11-20 19:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
â¥Majority of guys r like that, BUT NOT ALL! Just wait until you find the right guy that really cares 4 u b4 u go and do thatâ¥
2006-11-20 19:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't let them trick you into believing that, you are a precious jewel who some men wants to destroy, dont fall for it.
2006-11-20 19:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋