I was working a job and was able to meet various people that I am fortunate to run across. Anyway, this one particular man came in and I promise-----made me weak in the knees--- and very seldom would you find me speechless. The wonderful thing about it is that he found me just as attractive and wow! are the sparks there. The problem- our lives are on two different roads. I am newley single and have two marvelous boys and he has never been married and well on his feet where I am still struggling to stay afloat. I think I let my pride stand in the way but I definately don't want to give the impression that I am looking for someone to take care of me. We get along so well and already finish one another's sentences. Should i go for the gusto or not? Do you think that we could actually be soulmate's? I am definately dazed and confused.
2006-11-20 11:07:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it.. don't let pride or unknown or jumping to conclusions Blind you from seeing something great Right before ur eyes!
even if it doesn't work out, at least u will NEVER regret your decisions..... for better or worse, all of us are out there looking for someone to "take care of us".. it's not about finding a sugar daddy. it's about having expectations for what kind of man you want in ur life...if he fits the mold, that's awesome. try it out, see where it goes. if he doesn't, don't be upset.. just keep chugging. ur kids are most important, of course. good luck!
2006-11-20 11:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him for dinner. That lets him know about the kids and how you live. He may actually like the idea. Then if he invites you for dinner you don't have to feel obligated in any way.
Its really not necessary to turn him away because he has more money than you, that often happens in the real world, just be yourself, and let him be himself and see where it goes. Just don't let it go too far too fast, if hes your soulmate, he can wait a few weeks.
2006-11-20 19:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be possible that you are soulmates. I think that you should go for it. If he doesn't then he is the one that is missing out. It's not very rare to find single parents anymore and alot of people are afraid of "family ties". Go for it but do not let him think that you are looking for a guy to take care of you. Good luck and best wishes to you.
2006-11-20 19:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times soul mates work best when there on two different roads. Just make sure he knows about your concerns.
2006-11-20 19:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by luffa202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is funny like that. My advice is that if you turly have deep feelings for this guy then tell him how you feel. Dont be afraid to hold back. You never know you two could be soul mates and you would never know it. Tell him how you feel. i did that to my boyfriend and he proposed.
2006-11-20 19:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by colebulldog1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm a Strong believer that everything happens for a reason. so just go with the flow don't try to analyze anything just have fun
2006-11-20 19:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. If he is any sort of a man, he will accept you as you are. Just be yourself and be confident. See where it goes. What have you got to lose?
2006-11-20 19:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 kids when I met my husband. it doesn't really matter.. if he really love you he needs to accept your love ones.
2006-11-20 19:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it you only live once
2006-11-20 19:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by Fergie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋