This guy I've know for a year now, he works in a different department. But I've seen him almost everyday for a year. Just for a couple of minutes here and there. But we've kind of become, I guess what you could call acquaintances to semi friends. We've joked with each other, we share some of the same friends. I've always been nothing but nice to him I think anyway. He's even been as nice to pat me on the back when I was having a bad day. But today I was walking out of the building, he happened to be coming my way, he just looked at me. He already had a grouchy look on his face. It wasn't like he put it on just when he saw me. He looked at me for a couple of seconds and then looked away. I said hello and then he turned real quick with no smile and said hey. Why would someone act like this was he just having a bad day. Or was it me? And even if you're having a bad day, don't you acknowledge someone you know. He's not a stranger. I guess I thought he'd say hi first.
2006-11-20 11:06:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'm really sensitive, but I thought we were kind of friends. Now I feel like he doesn't care about me at all to now even say hello. Am I overeacting to this, or is he someone to not really want as a friend?
2006-11-20 11:07:36 · update #1
I guess I'm really sensitive, but I thought we were kind of friends. Now I feel like he doesn't care about me at all to now even say hello. Am I overeacting to this, or is he someone to not really want as a friend?
2006-11-20 11:07:46 · update #2
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Some one did waste all that time reading it, me. And I think if it was just that incident, it was more due to his having whatever bad day he was having. He may not see you as close of a friend as you see him. He may have been so distracted he didn't really notice it was you or even heard you to answer back. I can get that way when I am really ticked off. my mind is somewhere else and not on being social to everyone I think I know. Don't trouble yourself too much unless it becomes a pattern.
2006-11-20 11:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all is he married if he is keep your distance he is only being nice just as a friendly person. If he isn't doesn't sound like he want to be in a relatioship with you other than an asso. If he was having a bad day maybe he didn't want to speak everyone is entitled to be in a crapy mood maybe he should have spoke but he may be having a rough time with someone or something that very important to him. Sound like you have a secret crush on this guy and you need to let that go and let a nice guy find you. be patient and get into u
2006-11-20 11:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he say "hi" first, if you are friends with each other then you can also be the first person to say "hi". You said yourself that you are only semi-friends, I would not tell someone who I considered a semi-friend why I was having a bad day. Did you ask him what was wrong? Pat him on the back? You are making a big deal out of nothing.
2006-11-20 11:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by girls_lie_too_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that he really disrespects you. Often people are self-centered and who knows, while you are thinking that he was acting out of the norm, he might have had something happen in his life that had him self indulged. Is that really a bad thing? Give it a day or two to see if he responds the same next time. You may be way overeacting.
2006-11-20 11:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're very sensitive, some people, including myself, act like that when they are having a bad day. You haven't given him reasons to be upset so don't worry. He was just having a bad day. He was in a bad mood. I'm like that even to my man. I'm sometimes rude to him cause I'm just in a bad mood. Don't worry
2006-11-20 11:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kind of think you're over reacting. he may have just had a really bad day or bad something that happened. i don't think he was upset with you because he did speak to you. just ask him if he's alright the next time you see him. if he doesn't want to share, then just say, "whatever you're going through, i hope it works out soon."
2006-11-20 11:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a one time thing I would let it go and not worry about it. Next time you guys talk tell him how it made you feel and see how he responds. He was probably just having a bad day, dont take it so personally.
2006-11-20 11:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe u should try to talk to him. i know when im feeling bad or having a bad day, or something else, saying hi and pretending to be friendly is the last thing i want to do.
2006-11-20 11:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a bad day - he'll probably be back to normal tommorrow.
2006-11-20 11:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by missie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw girl! You sound just like me, I am really sensitive too, but no friend should treat you like that.
2006-11-20 11:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋