My mom takes all her anger out on me..Today she slammed me against a wall, pulled my hair, grabbed my neck..Then she hit with a belt. and cut my face with the buckle..I cant live with her anymore.what can I do??? please help!!
2006-11-20 11:04:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You could have her arrested for assault and battery, it is a crime to use physical force unless you are legally defending yourself and can only use that force necessary to stop a person or persons from doing you harm.
The problem with that is you could end up as a ward of the court, than to a foster home and you are too old to adopt, so you are kind of between a rock and a hard place if you report her. If you do feel your life is in danger by all means call the Police.
She has no business of using a belt on someone fifteen, corporal punishment went out a long time ago.
Do you have any relatives you can stay with. What about church?
A minister might be able to help resolve home conflict.
Is your dad around? I have been in a similar situation as young person myself and the juvenile system is not very good for helping you.
2006-11-20 11:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by John E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell an adult or a teacher at school-im, not sure what else to do, but i feel really sorry for you-i dont think you should be putting up with that-
and im hoping your one of the cute girls- if you are, then im really sorry about what youre going through
hope everything works out ^_^
(p.s. if you want to talk more about this, my IM is on,so you can send a message to me if you want,im feeling concerned about what youre going through....)
see ya!!!
But seriously, the best thing to do is to find another adult that will listen to you and tell him/her whats happening
And heres another idea-whenever youre alone in your room, you should make a daily journal and whenever you talk to the same teacher more than once, you can show her what you wrote of how youve been being abused
And if needed, you should probabably stay away from your Mom at a friends house for awhile
I hope i helped you alot
again, i hope everything works out well
2006-11-20 12:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by shadow_the_echinda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Child protection services, or the police, they will help you and get you in touch with the right prople. Whatever you do DO NOT run away, you deserve a better life, not worse, the streets are worse than home. Make a plan and get out of there! Good luck, take good care of yourself- respect and love yourself.
2006-11-20 11:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by dogriver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
over here in australia we have a service called the kids helpline, where you can call a councellor free of charge, and talk about your problems, and they can give you advice and the numbers of departments who can help you.
do you have a service like this where you are from?
i think you need to start keeping a diary and record all of the times she abuses you.
the date, time, what she did, all the details.
even take some pictures of yourself if she has cut/bruised you.
do you go to school? perhaps you can talk to a teacher or guidance councellor.
if things get bad, call the police, the more times she attacks you and the more times you report it, the more likely she will get charged.
good luck sweetie, i hope my advice helps
2006-11-20 11:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do this and do it NOW> you need to report her. you can call protective services or go directly to your local law enforcement office and file a report of abuse and assault.
Do not continue to let this go one. She needs help and would not get it unless you start the action..
you will more than likely be removed from the home so expect that. you possibly would be placed with a relative.
again DO IT NOW. DON'T WAIT..
2006-11-20 11:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Protect yourself by telling an adult either in your family or at school or even the police.
No child has to be put in this kind of situation. I am sure someone on here will know the steps best taken by you.
Sorry you in this situation.
Be strong.
2006-11-20 11:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by sideways 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please leave as soon as you can call the cops and tell your teacher another adult and do not stop until someone listens!!!
Do not worry about getting her in trouble....they will get her help and you do not need to be hit/choked and I wish I was in the room with your Mom for two minutes then you would see what I real mom does when her cubs get hurt!!!!
2006-11-20 11:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by darcy m 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
holy crap,you're 19 with a 30 year previous boyfriend??ok,i section with your mom on that. yet i individually think of you will possibly desire to pass out.don't experience in charge for leaving now,that's totally legal for you too and in line with threat your boyfriend can take you in.regardless of occurs,you basically gotta get outta that living house and someplace the place you will no longer might desire to agonize in the adventure that your mom is abusing your daughter
2016-10-04 04:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry. let me say that first of all. let me say this. is there anyone you can stay with? a relative a friend?? there is also the ywca. u can always go to school and tell someone about it. CPS will come to your house. don't worry. don't hesitate. do something right now before you get hurt anymore than you already are. physically and emotionaly.........
2006-11-20 11:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by Claire N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school counselor or your local social services agency. The police can also help. Good luck. I wish you the best.
Peace.
2006-11-20 16:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋