I don't know what to do.
I'm 19 and recently started dating this guy. Everything was perfect...he's handsome, funny, very very smart, and we have lots in common. My family & friends love him to death. He's great.
Well recently we were out on a date and he got up to use the bathroom. He came back about 5 minutes later and was acting very strange, but I didn't ask why. Later that night we were hanging out on my couch and things got kind of heavy and before I knew it, I was pulling his pants down.
That's when I smelled it. And then looked down and saw a big, HUGE, moist brown stain all over his briefs. ALL OVER. it was smeared everywhere, like a baby's diaper.
and this guy isn't a baby, he's 25 ******* years old!
he got embarassed and left immediately. that was 2 days ago, i haven't heard from him since then.
i want to get past this but i can't. he's perfect, but everytime i see him i either get grossed out or start laughing!
2006-11-20 11:02:29 · 10 answers · asked by Doctor Phil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everybody poops.... most of us can make it into the bathroom. if you really like him, close the door on this incident and let him get over his embarrassment (he must have been horrified), and move on...
2006-11-20 11:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gosh did it ever occur to you that this might be a medical issue? why the heck do you think there are so many ads on t.v. and in magazines for adult diapers - because some people simply do not have complete control of their body functions. lots of people have medical issues, this is just a more embarrassing private one than others may be.
instead of being so immature and childish about it you should be showing some compassion.
of course he won't phone, he is embarrassed. why don't you phone him? tell him that you are concerned about him and see what he says.
if this is his only flaw then you are a foolish little girl for letting him get away!
phone him, be nice and both of you get past it!
i'm sure if he knew you're blabbing it over q&a it won't help him feel any better!
2006-11-20 11:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by tess 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 10:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't be so immature. Don't you think that maybe just maybe he has a problem. He was probably so excited to be with you that just happened. Doesn't mean it will again. How do you think he feels. If you laugh at him, he will soon find out that he is better off without you and could have samed some money on a date. He obviously wasn't comfortable enough with you to tell you.
2006-11-20 11:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Figure it this way: in another 20 years or so, you may have the same problem! For some people, it just happens earlier.
2006-11-20 11:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If its true love then "even the score" on your next date.
2006-11-20 11:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Zee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really insensitive of you. he might have had a stomach bug and it caught him out in public. you need to apologise to him a? stomach bugs are really nasty and it happens to the best of us. it may happen to you one day.
2006-11-20 11:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
thats very funny made my day.dont let him forget it,he has to grow up soon!
2006-11-20 11:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry, but I can't stop laughing now!!!
lol
2006-11-20 11:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by Bren 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Ewww. If the man can't control his bowels.. it makes you wonder what else he can't control. Let him go. Find someone else.
2006-11-20 11:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly-29 2 · 4⤊ 4⤋