ok my boyfriend might visit me, but the problem is i don't know what to do or what i shouldnt do so if this and answer able Q PLZ HELP!! lol
2006-11-20 11:01:05 · 6 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off some of you are being asswholes any way, it's my first time seeing him in person and he's from texas and i know you guess think i'm crazy but too bad lol, when he comes i just don't know what to expect so plz help.
2006-11-20 11:07:58 · update #1
You are brief on the circumstances, so I don't have much to go on. I'm assuming this guy is visiting from somewhere far away, at least distance is involved. This is never good in a relationship. Having truth in a relationship is hard enough without putting distance in a relationship. In most cases people in relationships can’t handle the truth. There can be fantasy at play at times. Since you are 17, I'm assuming you are not out of high school or just about graduating. I could be wrong I have no references; my assumptions are from lack of information. I wonder about your boyfriend’s age. I don't know the laws in Oregon or age limitations. Of course we don't know what you plan to do with your boyfriend. I don't think you should do anything you will regret. Every decision is not really about the decision itself it is about the consequences of your decision. Do you plan to use protection if you have a sexual relationship? Are you worried about potential STD’s? Are you worried about getting pregnant? If you got pregnant would you have an abortion or keep the baby? THE SAFEST SEX IS NO SEX. I think kissing might be about as far as you go. There is still the possibility of mononucleosis (a.k.a. mono).
I would enjoy your youth. Has this boyfriend met your family and friends? Think about what social things you can do during his visit (places to go, see, and things to do). If he can’t enjoy being with you and being with those you care about this may not be the person for you. If you ever plan to get in a more committed relationship these are things to think about. Have you told your family about this person?
You should try and have a good time. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do. You should never feel pressured to do anything.
If this is your first time meeting, do not meet this person alone. Why would you trust a stranger? I hope your parents know your boyfriend. I hope he is visiting your family's home.
Key points…
1) You must be aware that there are consequences to every decision.
2) The safest sex is no sex.
3) Enjoy your youth.
4) Introduce this person to your friends and family if you really want them to part of your life.
5) Don’t do anything you don’t want to do.
6) Do not trust strangers.
My key points may not all be relevant; I don't know the full situation. I am covering all bases.
2006-11-20 12:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by midastouch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't really know what you are trying to ask but just be natural. DO what you normally do and have fun. Hope that answers it.
2006-11-20 11:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by bsigno21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a passionate kiss and take it from there. Do what comes naturally.
2006-11-20 11:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do about what?
In any case, if you are that confused don't do anything!
And don't allow yourself to be manipulated either!
2006-11-20 11:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
????
What ?
Your question made not one bit of sense.
2006-11-20 11:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you be more specific?
2006-11-20 11:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋