this is what happend from the biginning: Me and my girlfreind were dating for 6-8 months, things were going well and she said she loved me and everything. Then one day we decided to move in together,and things were going well untill she got a job. she says she loved me and eveything, then one day me and her got in a little argument (and i dont know if we were on a break at that time or what), but she was at work crying about me or somthing..and a co-worker who liked/had a crush on her..tried to comfort her..and he wiped away her tears and kissed her..and she liked it and kissed him back..he tried to ask her out and tell her to date him and break up with me, but she told him she cant and she had a boyfriend and she lives with him (me), and when she got home she didnt do anything she didnt even tell me. so a month later she decides to break up with me..she told me in the biginning when we first dated that she wasnt a cheater and that she hated cheaters..what should i do? i love her..
2006-11-20 10:54:31 · 6 answers · asked by Ando 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not a whole lot that you can do sparky, outside of giving it time and seeing if she comes back to you. If she does and you take her back remember that she was honest with you about the kiss even though it took her some time to tell you about it. The breakup may have been because she was feeling guitly about the kiss. Yes it was wrong and hard to forgive her but if you love her you can get through it.
2006-11-20 10:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ask yourself that if she was at work crying over your relationship when he wiped away her tears she would not have to explain herself when it came to him asking her out! We only become cheaters when we have the opportunity to do so. I know for sure if she had opened up to you instead of him then things would have been alot different and can guarantee that the both of you would still be together but she chose to open up to someone she didnt care anything for instead of you!
That is the definition of cheating and you can only say that if ever put in that position she chose not to kiss him then she isnt one but she is. She chose to kiss him back and no matter how bad things are between the both of you she had right to go to anyone but yourself with what she was feeling! You deserve that at the least with in a relationship!
I think you should move on and really see her for who she is. not hate her because she has hurt you but pity her for the fact is if she wasnt a cheater then she could have had the best man for her but she made her choice when she kissed the guy!
2006-11-20 11:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a fool pay attention to the signs, sometimes what looks good to us isn't always good for us and sometimes we have accept things that hurt us and in the long run we find out it what dont kills us makes us stronger and what makes us stronger leaves room for something(or someone) better.So just know in situations like yours you always gain something MUCH better than you feel you lost.So with that being said you've gained something much better you just din't see it now.Let me know when it arrives. Also notice the things we tend to want to hold on to are usually the things we don't need or are bad(unhealthy) for us.
2006-11-20 11:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive...but never forget...and dont get over...
Take what I say as you want, turn it into your own and then you will be happy.
2006-11-20 11:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Arry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with her because she's a *****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what ******* hore would do that.I would **** you every nigth if i was your girlfriend to show you how much i love you.
2006-11-24 10:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by abbey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up pal....youre history....move on to someone more stable
2006-11-20 10:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋