look im 14 in 9th grade. I like a girl and she knows it from a long time ago. She is in 8th grade. I know that she likes another guy(her friend told me). I only talked to her once. I cant take it. What do I do. It would be weird if I like her and was her friend and she liked someone else. I HATE THIS. I DONT LIKE ANYONE ELSE.WHAT SHOULD I DO.I WANNA SCREAM OR CRY OR SOEMTHIN(guys do cry). I am so nervouse i can barely talk to her.
HELP . only posititve answer plz.(sry for spelling)
2006-11-20 10:52:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just be a friend. Ask her about how she's going to spend her Thanksgiving or Holiday break.
You know, the thing about people is that they always want what they can't have....
Sooooooooooooooo, instead of letting her know you like her, just be chill and talk to her like you would a girl who is a friend.
It would not be weird to be her friend because you have a better chance of hooking up with her and having a real relationship than if you WEREN'T her friend.
Just keep it cool.
Friends are great. Just don't make it OBVIOUS. Pretend you don't like her anymore. Even if you do.
Pretend that was in the past.
Let her like that other guy, but be nice to her and it's going to drive her nuts.
2006-11-20 10:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by elidet_reyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally ignore her for two days and see what happens. don't be anywhere around her, glance her way, nothing. keep busy.
if she knows you like her she may feel a bit edgy, and totally ignoring her like this will put her more at ease and will pique her curiosity. On the third day, glance her way ONCE but don't speak. give her plenty of room and really pay attention to how she responds. a guy hanging on the edges all the time just watching puts anyone off.
hey, being a teen is really tough. I don't know ONE adult who'd like to relive it.
best wishes,
cryllie
2006-11-20 18:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all calm down and just be her friend. Don't worry about what's awkward and what's not. No matter how young you are friends always make the best boyfriends or girlfriends. It gives you time to figure out if you two really do like eachother or not.
2006-11-20 18:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by justsinginrain87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww...that is so sweet. If you really like then be her friend FIRST. Give her friend your number so that she can give it to the girl. Don't worry about anything that the friend tells you, it might not be the truth?! If you get her number, then talk to her and dont be nervous I know how you feel. I am in 9th grade too and I am having guy probs with my crush who is a grade higher than me! You are not alone. lol
2006-11-20 18:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by <3 Emmi_rox <3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man just go up to her and ask her out. Be a man, or you'll be crying while she goes with someone else. The way i see it it's like this first come first serve. At your age things happen quick.
2006-11-20 18:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being friends with her and if you're lucky soon she will wake up and figure out she really likes you. That happened to me. I had a boyfriend, but there was another guy I was friends with, and then one day, bam, I liked the other guy. Now we are together.
2006-11-20 18:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, i am sort of in the same situation. i think you should tell her how you feel. after that maybe ask her out. if you don't like that then i have another solution. keep it to yourself and go on for the rest of high school thinking that she could have been your girlfriend. it's not good to keep things like that a secret. if you at least tell her for yourself then it might feel better. and her friend could be lying you know. ask her how she feels about you for yourself.
hope i helped.
2006-11-20 19:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur still young but thats ok..u need to talk to her more than once..partly the reason why she might like someone else is cause she doesnt know youuu plus dont stress too much and if she knows u like her then u need to start talking cause its weird that you like her if u dont really know her since uve only spoken to her once..so talk to her and then itll be good
2006-11-20 18:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by aha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in order for u guys to have a good relationship obviously you have to talk to her. get to know her just as friends as first and then see if it can go anywhere else. once you are friends it will be easier for you to tell how she really feels. good luck :)
2006-11-20 18:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by piratelove22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether she likes someone else or not, you have to overcome your fears and go up to her and tell her how you feel..tell her that what you have to say is very hard for you, but you need to do it..even if you have to take deep breaths before you speak, just do it..she may make you nervous, but try your hardest to overcome that..good luck..
2006-11-20 18:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋