A complicated situation. A friends with benefits relationship with 35 year old mother of 3 divorced with bipolar. She already had another friends with benefits relationship with another man who had been living with his girlfriend for 3 years. The mind games were:- 1-Telling me she was having sex with a person she met in nightclub but did not tell the other man 2-Going on dating websites to find other men and not telling other man (I thought this was ok as at least she was trying to find someone more suitable) 3-Deciding she didn't want sex with me, didn't want to date and was happy with relationship with other man I then informed the other man what she had been sleeping around (unacceptable i know but done in heat of moment) Were these mind games acceptable? What would you have done in this situation? Also I know she will get in trouble in the future and I won't be around to help her so feel guilty
2006-11-20 10:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by kev f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As to the mind games no they are not acceptable, however I think what has happened seems to be that she simply decided not to sleep with you anymore and you are just striking out in anger. You need to get over it and leave her and her other guy friend alone.
2006-11-20 10:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, just walk away from that crazy relationship it soons that it will only bring chaos to your life. Find someone better, that wants a serious relationship and stablible relationship with you.
2006-11-20 10:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by lilipefer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from this whole situation as soon as possible.
2006-11-20 10:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's playing games....why would you want to be with her in the first place??
2006-11-20 10:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even be there at all... its all messed up and you Will not be happy
2006-11-20 10:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. good job.
2006-11-20 10:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with you
2006-11-20 10:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This triangle is sick and weird!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-20 10:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋