heres the deal i really like this boy so a friend told him i think hes cute. Then shes like do you like her and would you ever go out with her hes like ya. Then i decided for my friend to ask him out for me i was going to do it personal but then got to shy to do it . Hes like i dont know and guess it turns out his best friend likes me to but he hasnt told me a answer yet. Because it was the end of the day but i have to wait till monday so should i have asked him out my self or what. Then here comes monday he didnt even answer me or talk about me asking me out whats that mean??
2006-11-20 10:41:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should have done it yourself. Now it's all awkward and stuff because now he's shy about why you didn't ask him
2006-11-20 10:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always ask that kind of question personally. So go up to him and clarify everything yourself. I don't care if you shy! I did it and didn't regret it. Just bring things out in the open. If he says no than its not the end of world. Ask him if you can still be friends and then you will have to wait till you are great friends to try again (that may take years). But if he doesn't even want to be your friend, then he's not worth it. Hope this helps somewhat.
God bless
2006-11-20 18:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by The Pizzaman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so your friend told him you think hes cute and he said he might date you, well i think you should talk to him , that always makes the guy feel better and it shows you have confidence which most boys love but you dont want to seem over confident cause that can push him away. and for the best friend thing, yeah that sucks ive had that happen before and what i did was i talked to the best friend and explained i didnt feel that way about him. and that i just want to be friends, and for him to tell the guy you like if he minds or not. some guys wont date you but some will. i hope for the best
2006-11-20 18:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by kitkatpattywack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just shy or maybe he wants to be loyal to his best friend. Give it time & if he still hasn't said anything, then chances are he either isn't interested or he is interested but doesn't want to mess up things with his friend. Sometimes no answer is actually the answer. Good luck though.
2006-11-20 18:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by jodie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, like 9? Go ask him yourself! If you want to have a relationship with the guy, you'll have to talk to him at some point in time! I have never heard of someone getting a date with a guy where they didn't talk to each other first!
2006-11-20 18:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understood you correctly, you said that the guys best friend likes you, right? duh.... His best friend likes you - he's not gonna betray his best friend by asking you out--he'd be the lamest friend on earth, don't you see that??? It sounds like you need to get your head out of this "me" vacuum, and be aware of whats going on around you - how other people may be feeling, etc.
Do you know what i am saying? I'm not being mean, its just that you are so busy worrying about yourself, that you didn't weren't even able to see something perfectly obvious - because it involved the feeling of SOMEBODY ELSE, not you. Think about it,okay?
2006-11-20 18:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probally shy. But really you need to talk to him and ask him yourself. I know you will be nervouse but if you don't ask him yourself then you might not ever get him. Trust me I know. Anyway ask him about the answer but don't put pressure him. Also ask him how he feels about you.
2006-11-20 18:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by grldntolliver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said yea he should stick to his word...If you really like him, ask him on your own, show him you're seriose....im sure that over the weekend he and his friend talked, and decided that you would be the one to bring up the topic not them. Dont wait...march up to him and say "U wanna go out sometime?" If he sticks to his word, he'll say yes.
2006-11-20 18:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes prolly shy n duznt kno how 2 approach u n tell u wait til 2marro. if he duznt ask u then ask him in personal. the worst thing that can happen is he'll say no (not the end of ur life)
2006-11-20 18:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by nickizzle4rizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should alway do it yourself but if hes avoiding the subject now then hes prob not interested.best bet is to get close with the friend that likes you and she if he starts changing he mind when he learns more about u
2006-11-20 18:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by massslave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋