my bf snuck out of the house at 1 am , i went looking for him at the bars, and found him sitting alone with a girl drinking and talking together, is that cheating? when i confronted him he was speachless and never came with me home, he stayed at the bar with her and didnt come home till 3 am. is it cheating? i think so but he says no. i dont do things like that to him and never will.
2006-11-20 10:37:00 · 16 answers · asked by jvcj2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is. And if you have to come to yahoo and get that answered your probably a moron. And you're probably still with him by the time you read this.
Best of luck... I'll see you on Jerry Springer.
2006-11-20 10:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by abelp068 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would he leave at 1am and be speechless when he sees you? Something is up. The reason why he said that it is not cheating is because you didn't catch them doing anything. But his actions and behavior tell a different story. You can't be with someone who doesn't respect you. You need to seriously leave him, kick him out, whatever. Just get away.
2006-11-20 18:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do nothing. ask one of your male friend (that he dont know) to walk with you and hold hands and kiss on the cheeks and all. when he confronted you, tell him that you were not cheating. but to think of it again, he sneaked out and he couldve told you about it. communication is the best way to sustain a r/ship but it only work both ways. i did that to my female friend once and it worked. her boyfriend was a jealous and he confronted her and she told her not to sneak out behind her and just be honest coz she can understand. but anyways, good luck and may you find your true love.
2006-11-20 18:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be so harsh but you need to find yourself another dude. Think about it he left your side at 1 and still aint come with you or have no explaination for you. Girl if you have a bag of nickels hit yourself cause you crazy for letting that ride.
2006-11-20 18:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by dl_williamson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you claim that you love him then wait sure he ll turn up.dont confront him but talk to him dont ask him but share with him what happened that he actually got up at 1 to drink.it happens sometime what we see is actually not true as real picture always takes time to come to try your patience.not being philosophical but untill and unless he says something you should not call your relationship by names...............listen.........see to it.........decide
2006-11-20 18:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by neetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was not cheating then what was it?, the man is cheating end of story.
2006-11-20 18:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...that's deceitful..... insensitive.... and unworthy of a respectful...loving...and loyal woman like yourself..... but honestly i won't tell you he's cheating because i don't know.... but ask yourself..... if your doing anything wrong why are you sneaking? and then ask yourself this.... are you gonna wait and find out??
GOOD LUCK!!!!
....oh.... and just so there is no confusion!!!... he DOES owe you an explanation!!!!
2006-11-20 18:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its emotional cheating if he can't be honest with you on where he's going and who he is with. I would be kicking his *** to the curb if I were you.
2006-11-20 18:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mel ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep...i think thats cheating...i think u should break up with him and find a better man!
2006-11-20 18:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no respect for you. I wouldnt stick around
2006-11-20 18:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by pryncess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋