i recently met a guy (2 years younger than me) which i didnt know he has rommate and he cant talk to me when she is at home
we chat sometimes when she is not awake or at work
he said she is just a friend ,i like met him sometimes ,in fact i like him ,but i think something wrong here ,what should i do when he send messages?i dont know what kind of friendship it is.....
thanks for being patient ,my english is not good ,im newcomer to us and im not familiar with the culture ,please give me some advice about friendship and dating .i appreciat it
2006-11-20 10:34:41 · 12 answers · asked by Kathie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not being honest with you. He has a girlfriend. When he messages you just don't answer him.
2006-11-20 10:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, First of all, I would like to thank everybody for their answers to you. I agree with them all. If someone loves another person, then there is no barrier. Then, why does he live with her???
So, if he likes or loves you, ask him to move out and live alone for a period then you will see, which he won't do. So, forget him and do with our advice.
Another advice about the US, cause I am here for years . It's just like every other place, where nice and nasty people exist, serious and players. Just use your common sense . Alson as a woman be careful before you give your heart to someone. Godd luck.
2006-11-20 19:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by peace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends allow friends to chat on the phone with people who are their gender(sex) and of the opposite gender and don't get upset.
This guy comes across as not having a mere "roommate", but is hiding something behind his request. He sounds deceitful to you to tell you that his roommate doesn't like him to get phone calls.
I believe that he has either a girlfriend or wife sharing housing with him, not just a mere female friend. Handle him with extreme caution!
2006-11-20 18:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't talk to you when she's home, obviously she's more than a roommate. Forget him and look for someone who is not attached.
If you think something is wrong here, it probably is. Go with your gut feeling.
Welcome to America. Have a nice day.
2006-11-20 18:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There should not be any reason why he can't talk to you when his roommate is there. Whether friends are girls or boys, they don't care if you talk to someone else. He must be in a much more serious relationship with her. I would not get involved with him. You will just get hurt.
2006-11-20 18:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ithink its quite normal what you are going through.The guy may genuinely like you instead of the other roommate hence you have to be carerful just incase you may hurt the other party..Give it a bit more time and everything will be clear..Ques to consider are..why doesnt he talk to you when the other party is there..thats fishy..
2006-11-20 18:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dearea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser sweetie. He is probably married to the young lady and trying to get his freak on too,. He is lying now and will continue to lie. He will only hurt you this Casanova, tell him what American girls tell jerks like him, "*** off"
2006-11-20 18:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, sounds like that roomate is his girlfriend. Other wise there would be no need for secrecy. Leave this guy alone. He's taking advantage of you.
2006-11-20 18:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by TheOneVersion3.0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he cannot talk to you when his "roommate" is home, it's not a roommate. find someone else. He's trying to have more fun than he should and a lot of people are going to be hurt.
2006-11-20 18:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by tire gal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds kind of sneeky to me. I don't think this guy is telling the truth. I say, go on to the next guy in line!
2006-11-20 18:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by aes_bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋