I've been in a relationship for 4 and half years. me and him recently broke up cos we had too many issues that i thought we couldnt get past. since then this other guy who i've known for 8 yrs got back in touch. 3 yrs ago i chose my ex over him. he wants me to be in his life again as a friend for now but possibly as more in the future if things work out... (he's just gotten out of a relationship too!!) I've always had a thing for this guy but never acted on it. i didnt choose him3 yrs ago cos i was scared of hurting my then boyfriend (the one i just broke up with). My ex wants me back but i'm not sure i want to get back with him. i still love him dearly yet i'm drawn to this guy who's back in my life cos he's everything my ex isnt. is that wrong? it feels wrong, yet so right!!! One could say i love this guy i've known for 8 yrs as there has always been a strong connection and understanding to the extent where i would call him my soulmate... what do i do?
2006-11-20 10:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you owe it to yourself to find out if there is anything there. Nothing is worse than living with "what if?" Good luck!
2006-11-20 10:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by hippie2mars 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually want to be with either guy?
Or are you just scared of being alone?
I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but I believe that if you had genuine feelings for either bloke then there wouldn't be this confusion.
You might be better off staying away from dating for a few weeks/months til you work out what you want.
Hope it works out ok for you in the end.
2006-11-20 19:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your both on the rebound, you don't want dust to settle under your feet. its funny how somebody is allways available when you need them the most. i can't says whats best for you but me personally i would forget them both and start afresh after spoiling myself for a while first.
2006-11-21 05:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need time out for yourself. I mean no relationships fro a bit. Find out exactly what it is you want.
2006-11-21 02:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by trackie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is too long.
Ditch em both and start over afresh.
Too much baggage
2006-11-20 18:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this situation is way too complicated for a random person to give you advice you should actually listen to
2006-11-20 18:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wut?
2006-11-20 18:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Zero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋