there's this girl i love but she has a crush on this guy, not sure but i think she kinda likes him, she knows how i feel about her and she's not the type that will play with a mans heart, so what can i do to impress her and make her like me more than that other guy...i dont even kno who he is, we talk on msn all the time and hang out a lot
i compliment her, i treat her nice, i listen when she talks and i respect her thoughts and opinions, im not one person when im around her and another person when im not...
so what can i do to impress her and make here like me more?
2006-11-20 10:29:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told her how i feel and she know that i love her ...cuz i told her in person
2006-11-20 10:38:59 · update #1
I suggest you be yourself. Trying to impress people can make you come across as a "fake" person. Someone who you are not. By the way you have been treating her sounds like your a really nice guy. If you guys are meant to be together she will like you for who are.
2006-11-20 10:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, and I can definitely help you on how I would get I'mpressed! You know the biggest thing im thinking about right now! Is that she is using that guy to make it look like she is in love so that you would want her even more. I think you should tell her how you feel so she doesn't actually start liking this guy!I would be VERY impressed if I was her and you asked me out. She is probably patiently waiting 4 you to talk to her!
2006-11-20 18:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by akeller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you have to do is lay your feelings out for her. Tell her that having her in your life makes you a happier person, and that you would like to be the one who makes her happy every day too. If the other guy she's looking at hasn't said anything like that to her yet, she will probably pick you just because you were able to come out and tell her how you feel. Just don't wait too long or the other guy might beat you to it. I know it's scary to lay your feelings out like that, but it will be worth it in the long run, if it is what finally wins her heart. Just remember to be yourself. Nobody likes a phony!
2006-11-20 18:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue with what you are doing. Maybe throw in some "Bad Boy" attitude. Not too bad though. In the end, you can not make someone fall in love with you. And try not to "impress" her so much. Just be you and let things happen the way they will. Love is patience...Love is caring...Love comes in many shapes and ways. Good Luck
2006-11-20 18:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's way sweet, but honestly, there is nothing that you can do to make her like you more. Either she likes you or she doesn't. All the things that you are doing (listening etc) are all the right things. If she likes another guy then she likes another guy, simply said. It sucks, but she's the only one who can decide how much she likes you.
Good luck! Hope everything turns out well.
2006-11-20 18:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Lexie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. She may just see you as a friend and not a love interest. Happens all the time. The only way to find out for sure would be to tell her you might be falling for her and would that be something she would encourage.
2006-11-20 18:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what your doing now isnt working then there really is nothing more you can do. You cant buy your way into a woman heart. Just be there for her and I am sure she will wake up to herself!
Just remember you deserve the best also!
Good Luck!!
2006-11-20 18:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by bvbw81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to impress her and just be a friend and be yourself. If she thinks you're getting all puppy-dog eyes for her, you might scare her. Be careful about coming on too strong. It might backfire, but always be kind.
2006-11-20 18:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by tire gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry pal. There isn't a magic potion. She likes who she likes just like you like who you like.
Somewhere out there is a girl who will love you and who you'll love back. When you find her HANG ON!!! It doesn't come around every day.
2006-11-20 18:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by KayBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and don't try so hard....if she likes you and see's the possibility of being more than friends, then it'll happen.
it may be that she just looks at you AS a friend that she can turn too. let her know how you feel..but be careful, you don't want to ruin a good friendship!
take care
2006-11-20 18:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by simiarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋