I am so jealous. i love my boyfriend and all and love making love, but i can never achieve an orgasm, and he's not the problem, i've only been able to have one with one guy and it was oral sex. am I ever going to orgasm during penetration? anyone else have that problem? I've come close but not close enough to finish. I guess its easier for a guy to reach that point and finish but it seems that I need lots of oral stimulation. thanks for your help.
2006-11-20 10:29:13 · 31 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do the manual thing all the time and i have no problem finishing what i started.
2006-11-20 10:41:12 · update #1
he gives me alot of oral and thats great but i need to feel a hard dick too!
2006-11-20 10:43:22 · update #2
no he's not selfish, he tries his best but i've only had one in my life with a man...
2006-11-20 10:46:19 · update #3
Start with fourplay and oral is a must since that is what gets you going. Always let him try various positions at the time and go back down and lick your clit. It is a process and try drinking some wine, watch some porn or something that can stimulate the moment. Doggy style is usually the best for you to have an orgasm, the motion is making his balls slap your clit while his moving.
Good luck!
2006-11-21 03:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by jnd01 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok I'm gonna change your life girl...lol. Many girls have the same problem & I do as well. Not all girls are satisfied with penetration, most need clitoral stimulation. Buy you a toy called a bullet or egg... you can use this while having sex and it's awesome! Just place it where you get orally satisfied and turn that puppy on till you are pleased. You'll never have a problem again...I promise! My guy understands and has no problem with me using this during sex, most guys will understand. It's like a vibrating turbo finger!
2006-11-20 10:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by rayne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try some sensitizing cream, and a vibrating c*ck ring, or getting off by oral. Most women orgasm by clitoral stimulation because that's where the nerve endings are. Futhermore, you should get more assertive during sex. It's a turn on in and of itself.
2006-11-20 10:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean. I never had an orgasm with penetration but with oral sex i do. I talked about it with my gynecology and she tell me to try different position and to play before sex but nothing happen. Is not either my man. I wish to help if i could help myself.Good luck to you too.
2006-11-20 10:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by sweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Few women orgasm with penetration alone. Since you are capable then it's nothing psychological with you. You just need a little more oomph. There are many good books on the market to help you.
Go to the library & see what they have there.
2006-11-20 10:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not freaked out by it, masturbate. Best way to find out what works for you and then be able to implement it during sexual intercourse.
Most women orgasm more frequently when on top. Also, self stimulation during sex works.
Oh, and that rumor about a woman's peak being in her 30's... very true and couldn't be happier :)
2006-11-20 10:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by misskate12001 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can love him until the cows come home, but the majority of women don't orgasm through penetration alone. Ask him to get busy in other ways!
2006-11-20 10:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well. the only thing that I can tell you is. Maybe you need to try new things. Maybe Oral is the only way that you can reach the big O. Try to do costume or role playing.
Good Luck!
2006-11-20 10:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a common problem. Just not many of us women like to admit it. I have studied this for obvious reasons.But sadly some can have ot once, some a million, some never : ( .......But I highly recommend asking your OBGYN they are experts at this and how can you be shy with them they have already seen it!....lol Good Luck to you!
Forgot to mention...it may be as simple as Your trying to hard and that is a set back! Relax...
2006-11-20 10:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.... if you need lots of oral stimulation perhaps you need a boyfriend that is willing to provide what you need. If your man constantly leaves you unsatisfied he is taking more than he is giving and you are being cheated.
2006-11-20 10:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋