I broke up in really sweet and good terms with my gf yesterday, but yet, I still feel her around ..I still love her...!! We broke for good reasons because there was something she asked me that I was not ready to do yet, but I still can't move on, I loved her so much ...I can't still imagine her out of my life ..she asked me to call her now and then ... what should I do now ..? should I capitulate and come back or hang on to my decision ...?
2006-11-20 10:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are only easy if you are some sort of cold hearted jerk. If you have feelings and compassion they are always difficult. You usually mourn the loss of a friend as well as a significant other. If you can be her friend then call her. If you can't, you can't.
2006-11-20 10:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up your mind you either are in love with her or you loved her. Two very different meanings to the words you used in the above statement. Give yourself some bloody time you ended it yesterday you havent even given yourself a chance to move on! Stick to your guns. If in a months time you cant live without her then call her up to see where things can go but dont go to her now and try and get back with her. She may need some time to move on also.
2006-11-20 10:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to you sweet..Break-up is never been easy. Well, depends. If you loves the person, its hard. Esp if you break-up w good terms. Do you both want to meet again, talk & try to compromise over the cause that makes you both breakup? Relationship works based on communication, compromise, honesty, faithful and passion.
If your mind is totally made up already;then you have to move on..
All the best..
2006-11-20 10:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are not. you may even find yourself thinking you were better off trying to work it out. Sometimes leaving hurts more than staying but the trick is what's at stake here? In this type of situation it's best to figure out the strengths and the weaknesses of the relationship as well as the pros and cons. Good luck. Call her you never know this culd be the start of something you never thought possible.Try it.
2006-11-20 10:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bobby -
Stay strong. Stick to your decision. If she asked you do something that dont want to do then she will keep asking you
if you go back with her. Stay true to yourself.
I know you hurt, but trust me time heals all wounds. The best thing to do is have a "mourning" period of a couple of days.
This is time that you give yourself to be sad about your loss.
Then its time to move on. Do stuff that you DID NOT do with her.
Hang out with your friends.... go to the movies... stay busy...
after a couple weeks you'll feel alot better.
Good luck.
2006-11-20 10:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on what she asked you to do. If you aren't ready to have kids, I would say stick to that decision. If you don't want to meet her parents, or something trivial like that, then you may want to reconsider.
Weigh out your pros and cons and decide what you care more about. But the kids thing is heavy, so be sure you are ready and not compromising on that one.
2006-11-20 10:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough one pal. My own experience says stick your guns. I haven't broken up with a girl and gotten back together and had it work out.
Also, if she was willing to let the relationship hinge on one question, what does that tell you about what she feels? If whatever it is was more important to her than you are, that's important information.
Good luck, these are the hardest questions.
2006-11-20 10:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by KayBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't you have just said you wouldn't do the thing she asked you to do? Did you really have to break up over it? If you're both still into each other maybe you should get back together (I don't know how she feels about it - or you).
2006-11-20 10:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by heehaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 10:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i could give u some advice:
-if u still love her tell her that tell her u still have feelings for her and that whatever she wants u to do just tell her something that stupid doesn't have to ruin ur relationship............hope that helps...........and if it doesn't don't blame me i'm only 14 going on 15..
2006-11-20 10:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋