I think I love two people at the same time but not too sure as I'm not entirely sure what love is... I could say I love someone and mean that I care for them and want to be with them and can see me spending the rest of my life with them but what if i'm able to visualise myself being with two people???
2006-11-20 10:20:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try both out. Have your cake and ask and ask for seconds
2006-11-20 10:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, you cannot fall in love with 2 people at the same time. I believe you can LOVE 2 people at the same time very much, but your heart only falls in love ONE person at a time! Don't mistake love as being IN love, because there's a difference. And since you have admitted you're unsure of what love is, you need to trust me on this one. There's plenty of fools who swear they've been in love with more than one person at a time, but I think they're simply mistaken. As far as being with 2 different people - don't expect THAT to last for long. Most people don't tolerate that for too long at all and someone always gets hurt. If you're just casually dating two people and it's not serious, then it might be ok. But as far as having a relationship with two people at once?? It won't last. Bisexuals have this problem a lot and that's because people want to pair up as couples and begin futures together - they don't want a third wheel along for the ride! Some people are selfish and hate having to choose, but it must be done if you want a real relationship to last. You can't have your cake and ask for seconds. If you visualize yourself with 2 people, visualize yourself all ALONE very soon.
2006-11-20 10:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can think you love two people at the same time, but if the crunch came you would be more worried about losing one than the other, try to sort yourself out before you lose them both, or the one that you really want.
2006-11-20 10:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is possible. Just not wise. And I would say that if you don't know what love is then you arent in love. Love is something that you know, not something that you question. But lots of people have thoughts about spending there life with people. Just make sure that you know your own mind and dont play them both along or you will just end up hurting someone.
2006-11-20 10:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dougal F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably feel you can see yourself with each person but not with both. If you can see yourself with both, you have to think that if you try that and they find out, you will more than likely lose both. Don't do that to yourself. Either chose on or the other or give yourself for a break for a while. If your not with either one of them for a little bit you'll be able to think more clearly and maybe make your choice.
2006-11-20 10:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by simojord2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem you are having. I was in love with two people at the same time. Therefore, I do believe that it is possible to love two people at the same time. In my situation I choose the wrong guy and I am suffering with the decision that I made. I am 37 weeks pregnant with the man whom I choose baby. He has becoming very controlling and is not the man I fell in love with. Please don't make the same decision I made. Find out if its really love first and always love yourself. No one can love you as much as you love you.
2006-11-20 10:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If its family yeah. If your talking about boyfriend girlfriend relationships then no not really unless your into all that lets take a break crap and meet and have sex with other people. If you like two people choose the one you think you will be able to be around better. Its all about who you really love what your heart tells you.
2006-11-20 10:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's not only possible, it's common. it's called polyamory, and while still taboo in this country, it is gaining more acceptance. I have been there myself, head over heels about two wonderful people. i, in time gave up one of my loves, who is now married to a very nice person. we are still friends.
be sure that you don't play favorites, and be sure you can all handle the stresses involved in such a relationship.
please ignore all the negative responses your question will get.
the best of luck with your loves
2006-11-20 10:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by Flint 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its very possible. The decision one has to make is that it has to be only one. Make a list of pros and cons for each person. Do some real deep thinking for yourself, go with your gut. Relax, have fun and try not to stress too much.
2006-11-20 10:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by aes_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love three people at the same time....... my kids!
As for guys I've loved two at the same time and it drove me wild, so I decided not to put myself through that ever again and only have one at a time from now on!!
Good luck only you can decide who you want....x
2006-11-20 10:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a favourite oufit? Would you let someone have half of it?
Would you share it with someone on a regular basis? possibly month about?
or 6 months each per year?
No
Then why would you share your heart which is a million times more important?
2006-11-20 10:31:06 · answer #11 · answered by JAYFIRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋