I'm 17 and the boy I like is 13?

Question

Is it okay since we're both technically minors

BTW he's really mature for his age and I'm immature for mine!

I WON'T BE 18 FOR ANOTHER 10 MONTHS

ITS OKAY!

WE'RE IN LOVE & GOING TO GET MARRIED

Answer 1

NO and thats freaking disgusting, you are a sick girl and you need counseling!

Answer 2

Think about this, you'll be 18 next year and he will be 14. Then it won't be cool. When you are 21 and able to drink alcohol, he'll still be 17 and unable to get into even an 18+ club. C'mon girl. Where could it possibly go? Besides, you are a young woman and already way ahead of his league intellectually. Don't do that to yourself. Aim for someone maybe 2-3 olders than you.

Answer 3

NO. If he was 15 that would be okay, but 13 is still really a kid
and 17 is moving on to adulthood.

I know that isnt what you want to hear, but the truth of the matter is that once you turn 18 you are going to have to stop seeing him and that is going to hurt WAY MORE than just walking away right now.

Good luck

Answer 4

ironically in some states, HE could be prosecuted for statutory rape now. it's an age old saying that "when a man has sex with a young girl, it's perversion. when a woman has sex with a young boy, it's generosity."
now, some people still see it that way, but you might want to find out what his parents' views are on the subject. i'm assuming that neither his nor your parents know?
most importantly, as you are the older in the relationship, it should be your prerogative to supply the condoms and make sure he knows to wear one.
there are often maturity and social issues between a couple when the ages differ by much. avoid those and you have a chance.

Answer 5

um 4 years apart, not 2 much! but that's when ur older. If u go out with a 13 yr old you could get in legal trouble, and right now it's morally wrong. I mean he hasn't even kissed someone yet but you may b looking for sex. Wierd, right? If you like him this much you'll wait at least a couple years if not more.

Answer 6

Wow.....there is nobody your own age that you wanna date? He can't even buy tickets to a rated R movie. I think you could have him as a friend but maybe look for love later down the line with someone closer to your own age. Best of luck to you.

Answer 7

umm....this is sort of a tough one....i mean yeah both of ya'll or minors but you gotta think this boy is not at all emotional mature as you are.....he's still very young and if you break up with him it would be very hard on him so be careful...i wouldnt advice u 2 push the realationship further but its youre choice....

Answer 8

Thirteen is way too young. Come on! What would your relationship be like? You can go play cars and video games together? What would you talk about? Spongebob and Jimmy Neutron?

Answer 9

How does a 13 y/o get booty?
you must be very desperate, find someone closer to your age, at least untill he isn't jail bait.

I think I'm gonna throw up at the thought of a young WOMAN sexually molesting a boy.

Answer 10

Although there is legally nothing wrong with it, think about it.

Next year, it WILL be illegal.
He will barely be going into high school.
YOU'LL be in college!
You wil find another guy before you know it!
He's completely less experience in relationships than you.


Hope this helps!

Answer 11

I wouldn't reccomend a relationship since soon you will be moving on to college and you guys will loose contact. Find someone that is closer to your age.