do u think that this is a large amount of sexual partners to have had?? or as long as your current gf/bf had practised safe sex do u think it should matter ??? would it bother u ?
the lady in question was 26 ...
2006-11-20 10:02:01 · 27 answers · asked by jizzumonkey 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No CHUCK its not me ... altho it wouldnt make a diff if it was ... am just curious as to what other people think ....
2006-11-20 10:12:59 · update #1
Not sure why she knew the exact number ....but thats what her current beau said !
2006-11-20 10:29:30 · update #2
lets put things into context.. the person in question is 26, lets assume she lost her virginity at the age of 15 for instance, which isn't an unrealistic age... which means she's been sexually active for about 11 years.. which means she's had on average 5 sexual partners a year since then..
is that really a great amount? who knows, i guess it depends on who's judging?
personally i wouldn't be shocked by it, and it wouldn't bother me in the slightest... everybody has a history, and nobody should judge somebody else, they haven't lived that person's life..
2006-11-20 11:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by muppet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a male I would have preconcieved ideas about her but only because society has taught me that its wrong to have loads of partners. I now believe that is wrong due to the fact there is a human being who has a story to tell behind every attention grabbing story you hear. Firstly if her boyfriend has issues then he shouldn't be in the relationship. I truely believe the your partners past sexual history shouldnt be a problem if they took precautions. (another way to look at it is that she isnt shy in bed then) If they didnt then they dont care about your health. Surley you want your partner to be healthy. If it bothered me I wouldnt choose her as a girlfriend. Her sexual past is just one small part of who she is. There is more to her than what she did in bed so to speak. All though it does seem to be a rather large amount in the sexual partners I do know people who have alot higher numbers or so they claim and as long as they practised safe sex then it shouldnt be an issue.
2006-11-20 10:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by wandera1970 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i exchange into married for 12 years, my longest relationship. I definitely have been in the single i'm in now for 3 years. i'll by no skill marry lower back, i admire the liberty i've got confidence with being unmarried (besides as my boyfriend). We see one yet another as usually as we would like and that i spend the night at his living house a week at a time, yet I consistently have my own residence to come back living house to. I guess this relationship will final longer than my marriage did!
2016-10-22 10:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that this is alot, she is only 26 and 53 is alot of sexual partners to of had, I dont believe in one night stands, on many occasions the offer has arised altough I have just never accepted, I think she doesnt have alot of self respect for herself, even if it is safe sex, she will get herself a reputation and people will only see her in that way. although people say how comes men can do it and women can't, well i believe its the same for men, double standards, but at the end of the day it is her life if that is the way she intends to live it good luck to her we can't look down on it, just because we may not agree with it. should it matter.........maybe..........but would you tell him or her the truth??
2006-11-20 10:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by hunybuny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think many people have had pasts that they might regret. I think it's important to accept a person on their current actions, although a past with that many sexual partners, particularly a woman who is only 26, could indicate some self-esteem issues. This doesn't make her an awful person, it just could mean that she might have a few more "issues" that make it difficult to have a meaningful, intimate relationship with her.
2006-11-20 10:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she'd been a virgin up until last year then I'd say yes! That’s a lot of sexual partners to have had.
Seriously though….
I'm more intrigued to know why the hell the female in question would keep counting & why would she tell her current b/f? In fact why do people brag about past conquests anyway? Because it is bragging
I'm quite aware that my Guy had a life before me & he knows I did before him, but! Neither of us has ever gone into details. I certainly wouldn't ask him about his past love life, I think that's his business not mine. I wouldn't expect him to ask me about mine either. That way, neither of us can get on our high moral horse about the other.
2006-11-20 10:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wouldn't be my girlfriend either. In my opinion she is not taking relationships with commitment because it is a bit impossible that all the 53 guys she had before were all cheating on her or they weren't honest all of them. But it could be a show off too.
2006-11-20 18:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come she kept count? I had to think about how many I'd had..........and it only came to 6! How can you possibly recall 53 partners unless she was on a mission or something?
2006-11-20 10:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your experiences are what make you who you are. Would have to wonder why she had so many partners. However people grow up, it shouldn't mean that you could not have a meaningful relationship if she is truly ready
2006-11-20 10:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All depends if she has always been a free agent. That's not a great deal really but I can see why people would be put off.
2006-11-20 10:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by evs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋