Just curious because I do this. I figure I can get to know any girl, but if I start with looks, I have a shot at the whole package.
2006-11-20 10:01:12 · 22 answers · asked by Cameron L 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know. The way I get to know someone is to ask them out on ONE date. If she's got personality to match looks, it can lead to more.
I would never CONTINUE dating someone based on looks alone.
Most of you are quick to judge.
2006-11-20 10:25:52 · update #1
yes well atleast ido sometimes
2006-11-20 10:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because sometimes the guy can look like the hottest guy that ever walked on the planet that makes Brad Pitt look ugly, but then his personality would suck. I rather think he's cute and talk to him to get to know him better. Yes, attraction does help in a relationship, but looks aren't always going to matter in the long run. You are missing out if you do that though because there are girls out there who might not be the prettiest girl you ever saw, but they will love you until the end of time, but you won't let them because of their looks... That's just shallow. Sorry, but that's the harsh truth.
2006-11-20 10:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by just another girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. I had a blind date once with a very handsome guy. That was the last date. He had a very bad attitude. Negative. I am not interested in people who have a bad taste on life. I don't care how good looking someone is. I would rather there be someone average or less than average who is going to be outgoing, respectful, nice, honest, a good communicator, and most of all, a Christian. I have dated nice looking men. They mostly don't look at me on the date, they look all around or talk about themselves. Not interested in good looking men. I like men who have a heart and who treat their mothers with respect. If they treat their mothers with respect they will treat me with the same respect.
We are going by what you asked and as you can tell most of have dated guys and find out they are not what they appear to be. We give them chances. It is by experience I have found this all out.
2006-11-20 10:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering your MySpace-esque picture with your shirt all pulled up thinking your all sexy and stuff, I would have to say that you are the type of guy that only goes for looks, probably because you don't have much of a personality to start with.
But to answer your question, if there isn't at least a nudge of a physical attraction chances are it wouldn't start up, but to base a relationship solely on looks is quite shallow and the relationship will be full of cheating and disappointment.
2006-11-20 10:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on the girl or woman, because just like men, we women have different taste in men too. Some would go for just the looks, some for brains and humor, some for wealth and some for the total package...so it all depends on the individual. Good luck!
2006-11-20 10:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by jinky l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It starts with looks, but I only focus on that for about thirty seconds. After I've reviewed his personality and dubbed it acceptable, the guy instantly becomes more physically attractive for some reason. One thing, however: He's automatically out if he puts shirtless pictures of himself on the Internet.
2006-11-20 10:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. A guy can be ugly as hell, but if he is sweet and cares about you, than nothing matters. Most guys that are good looking enough to get a girl just on looks turns out to be a butt anyway.
2006-11-20 10:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have dated guys on looks alone. I also have dated some not so good looking guys who were great too. Married one of them.
2006-11-20 10:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because they can be really hot and be a dork inside so for guys they could chose the outside of a girl cause um...they're guys but a girl needs it's 50% out 50% in so it almost a perfect guy
2006-11-20 10:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by A.S.IP.W.F.D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. Of course, I have eyes in my head, so I look. But if he talks like he's got rocks in his mouth, what's the point? I go for personality every time.
2006-11-20 10:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl, and if the guy was reasonably intresting and funny i would go for a couple dates or so but i wouldnt have a bf who i only liked for looks.
i think...
2006-11-20 10:03:08 · answer #11 · answered by Colin Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋