She fails to discipline the kids and always has these "time out" situations that don't work. I give them the old fashioned approach that is tried and true.
I told the kids if they complain, they are gonna really get it. They make a mess, noise, eat crap and play idiot video games. The boy is 13 so I'm just trying to straighten him out before he becomes a punk and hangs out in front of the 7-11.
The girl is 11 and accidently walked into my cigarette. Now I got some family service beetch up my azz. Should I tell her to mind her business or just dump the mother?
2006-11-20 09:55:37 · 27 answers · asked by Ratzo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope the kids tell their mother and the family service beetch everything. I wish I could come slap you around for the sake of the kiddos.
2006-11-20 09:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by backroadhome 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The family service 'beetch' is only part of your problem. I'll tell you this, because you dicispline the kids when their mother is not around, you've devoloped a love-hate relationship. Instead of diciplining them, try and relate to them. You want to try and be a friend that's stern, yet they can rely on you. Develope a good relationship with the kids, and then the cigarette business will really and truelly be an accident, not a deliberate act of hate (as the children probably see it).
Now, about the family service 'beetch', it's really up to you. If you still like your girl friend, then try to work something out with the 'beetch', ask her "What can I do to make things right?" it should work. If you don't like your girlfriend enough to deal with the 'beetch' then you're not a very good boyfriend.
2006-11-20 10:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by who_is_audrey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fpr those poor childrens sake you need to dump her mother. You do not slap children around, if you do, then they end up in front of the 7-11 with low self esteem and the girl is pregnant looking for love from a man, since the father figure in her life abused her and made her feel she was not worthy, but you already sound to ignorant to understand any of that. Accidently walked into your cigarette, right, why were you smoking around her. I once "accidently" walked into my ex-husband cigarette, who also beat me, and sexually abused me. You need to leave and make sure you never look back, the kids just might have a slight chance when you are out of their lives they might be normal again. Of course if the mother is immature enough not to see this issue, she deserves to loose them as well. You are a class A loser, dont' ever have your own children and don't be with soemone who does.
2006-11-20 10:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump the mother. That way she can find someone better than you. You disgust me. I don't care how horrible those kids are they needed a father figure that was positive and I hope she presses charges against you. You don't deserve her. Oh and by the way even if you dump her you idiot the charges of child abuse will still be investigated. you can't escape it. I've worked in childcare for 7 years and your pathetic. Time outs do work, but they only work if a child respects you enough to follow through. Obviously her kids had no reason to respect such a piece of slime like you!!
2006-11-20 10:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should walk away. Actually, sounds like you should be in jail! You have no right to "give them the old fashioned approach" and from the way you talk, probably shouldnt be around kids. Frankly, I hope yahoo hunts you down and sends the po-lice out on you as you sound like trash. have a great day.
"Now I got some family service beetch up my azz. Should I tell her to mind her"
2006-11-20 09:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.PS 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Dude, unless you have Mom's permission to slap them around, then you shouldn't. That family service beetch is up your azz for good reason!
I'd dump the Mom. Put an end to all your problems w/this disfunctional family.
2006-11-20 09:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Miz D 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Both you and your girlfriend need to sit down and talk about how the children should be disciplined. The kids will not respect either of you if you are not consistent with the type of discipline that is given. Time-out generally works with younger kids but not older ones. There are alternatives such as grounding, removal of privileges, and the like.
2006-11-20 10:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When your girlfriend isn't home you slap her kids? What the hell?
You call that discipline? If you want to discipline, talk to your girlfriend and discipline the kids together.
Other wise you are setting yourself up for child abuse.
The kids can say, you hit them when ever their mum is not around.
2006-11-20 09:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real question then here is what you should do. Find a bar in a bad part of town and go in there and really piss off some on the biggest meanest guys in there, tell them to take it outside. Then if they dont kill you then try a bridge jumping.
2006-11-20 09:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you are wrong for hitting those kids, you should stop now, think about if you were those children, then you woulnt want no stranger hitting you, but you should stop , they are just kids and besides there not your kjids, let there mom continue doing her job and you chill before you end up in jail
P.S.You do the crime, you do the time
2006-11-20 10:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by BABYDOLL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋