k heres the deal i love this girl so much and i TRUSTED her more then anyone but she used that can cheated on me..and at the end i started dating her again..but i didnt try to love her and make sure if she did it again i wouldnt hurt as much........so we worked it out. i forgave her but i didnt trush her. thats kinda of the problem. well anyways right when i thought i i was going to trush her again......i THOUGTH that she was cheating on me so i ended it......and it turns out she wasnt....i feel so d*** dumb. how do i get her back?
2006-11-20 09:41:56 · 11 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her about it.
tell her whats going on in your mind.
let her know how you feel and all.
then see how it works out.
2006-11-20 09:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by RazaBlade Kanible 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would probably be best for you to just cut your losses and consider it a lesson learned and just move on ,,,, You'd never really be confident that she wouldn't cheat on you again anyway ,,,, You've already said she's done it once ,,,, You didn't mention your age group but I would put you as in your teens ,,,, That being the case then this isn't the only time you are going to run into this anyway ,,,, Besides it's not fair of a person to expect another to tie themselves down to just them at this age anyway ,,,, It's not being fair to yourself either ,,,, The idea of dating other people is to acquire a broad range of acquaintances so you are better able to determine just what you want in a person later on in life
2006-11-20 17:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are very sorry and that you really do trust her and do it quick.And don't go all crazy on her again.Take her some flowers and maybe a teddy bear of something.Aske forgiveness that's all I know of if I think of something else i'll let you know
2006-11-20 17:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by Dannylvr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you forgave her and told her that you would trust her again...then you need to stick to that. You can't keep bringing up her past if you have told that you have forgiven her. Now, if you still haven't forgiven her (i.e. you still don't trust her) then you need to work through THAT issue first. Simply SAYING you forgive someone does not make it true...you have to truly let go of your pain and anger.
2006-11-20 17:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Quiz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...maybe... you don't need her... i dont think shes good for you.... but ... if you really LOVE this girl.. i think the two of you should take it slow... give yourself time to KNOW her and FEEL for her again before you enter another relationship... word of advice: you shouldn't be with someone that you dont trust.... you CAN'T.... explain to her exactly how you feel... and allow her to do the same.... if you are going to BE with her... you have to forgive her.... and when you forgive someone... you dont make them feel bad about it or mention in every argument.. the relationship will not work that way... it wont be easy..... and it will definetly take time... but love is WELL worth the wait!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-11-20 17:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her the truth that you think she was cheating again and turn out not to be and send her flowers with a soory note to it that alawys helps
2006-11-20 17:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move On!
its Not like she has the last Vagina on Earth.
2006-11-20 17:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should be friends with her till you know you can start trusting her
2006-11-20 17:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Positivitydeepbreathing 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say your sorry and tell her what happened. she screwed up once and now you did. your even.
2006-11-20 17:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by question man 911 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i understand that u did not forgive her .
2006-11-20 17:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by suma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋