Is someone up there trying to tell me some thing or is this some sort of punishment?
2006-11-20 09:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by liz d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we all feel like that sometimes, but there is always a positive side to things.........maybe you ought to take a good look around at other people.
there will always be people better off than you but i can assure you that there are alot of people worse off.
stop looking just on the negative side
2006-11-20 10:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥gigi♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad things don't always happen to you. I don't know what you're going through, but look at whatever it is and be greatful that it isn't something worse. Be greatful for what you have not instead of wishing for something else. Then things wont seem so bad (even if they kinda are) I'm sorry your feeling this way, but make the best out of it! Good luck, and I hope things get better for ya!
2006-11-20 09:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a spell like that in my 20's. I finally took a good look at myself and realized that I just wasn't taking responsibility. I'd daydream behind the wheel and then be surprised if I got a speeding ticket. I'd skip the car registration and then get slapped with a heavy fine. I'd chase men and then wonder why I was getting used. I finally just backed off, stopped all new projects, cut up the credit cards and quit shopping. I gave myself a fresh start and now, 20 years later, my life is peaceful, my kid loves me, my lover loves me, my bills are paid and I have all the material things I need.
2006-11-20 09:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you are a pessimist person. You need to take life as it comes and never and never blame yourself for something wrong that happened to you. If you doblame yourself you will live your life in sadness and regrets. So take my advice don't think that there is someone up there who is trying to punish you for something you've did. But hey listen up one thing though if you did something that is pretty much wrong then try to find a solution about it to make your conscious alright.
2006-11-20 18:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, we go along in life minding our own business then something comes along to give us a slap in the face sometimes ok? Just make the best of the good times and accept the bad times cos they go. You can always tell us about it. All the Best.
2006-11-20 09:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sandee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. pleeeeease
We all have times when good & bad things happen, it's not what happens in our lives, it's the way we deal with it.
I'm trying to be careful what I say here in-case you think you've got the worst answers of all time.
2006-11-20 09:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be going through a bad patch just now. It probably seems like the world is out to get you but hopefully good times won't be far away.
2006-11-20 09:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by feefee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a pessimist - try optimism, it works. Honestly - possitive thoughts attract positive things, if you walk around thinking oh poor me something bad will happen - it will xx
2006-11-20 09:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your mind. Bad things happen to everyone, but you're probably putting yourself into bad situations and focusing on them.
2006-11-20 09:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's because you are what's technically called a "nebbish".
Get out and meet people more, befriend someone who needs it. Get b-u-s-y!
2006-11-20 09:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋