this guy ive been dating for 7 mths is actin weird! well, we talked about becomin exclusive, and he calls me his Nubian Queen when he talks to guys about me. then the other day, he told me i was his _____. so i texted him n said sumthin, but i told him i wanted him n not his _____. he texted me n said "u want it that bad". but that was b4 i told him i wanted him n not his ____. so he told me i gave him the wrong answer n that he was gonna call another girl. both of us know he doesnt really know many girls at all & he doesnt hop in the bed w/a girl who he doesnt know. then he texted me n said "bye". what in the world was that all about? n his best friend tells me he thinks the world of me. they can tell just by how he talks about me, looks @ me, n alotta ppl think he's in love w/me. what's going on? HELP!!!!!!!
2006-11-20 09:27:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To defend ourselves against yall's mind games. Oh, and keep in mind, it may not be a mind game, it could be a communication issue. We don't have telepathy like your g/f's do.
2006-11-20 09:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Manny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My theory on these kinds of situations is that if you have to ASK the question, then you probably already know the answer. If you are unsure of how he feels and he is not making you feel secure with his behavior - and it's just words, I would be careful. Not that he's cheating or anything, but he's not 100% sure about you.
My advice is, move on - if you're not sure and he's not making you FEEL sure, then it's a waste of time. You should be spending time being HAPPY and enjoying your relationship - not questioning it.
2006-11-20 17:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Quiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really is weird, but has struggled to hide it over the last 7 months. Maybe now he's finally letting his true colors show.
2006-11-20 17:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh lord what a game that is.........if you actually want to continue seeing this guy just ignore him for a while then when you do start talking to him tell him how it is........say that you're not up for these ridiculous games. if you don't want to b/c this is childish just leave the loser and find someone else that can give you what you want in a relationship
2006-11-20 17:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lady C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... he likes you alot but hez nervous bout the feeling... and for the record, we play mind games sometimes cuz u girls do it so much that we wanna know wat kinda sick (in a good way) pleasure u get out of it... some of us enjoy it so we continue playing games like yall do
2006-11-20 17:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the two of you are young . Hope you dont have any babys.
2006-11-20 17:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by 1diputs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was trying to look kool in front of his friends. and dont worry 7 months. and if he has not alot of girl friends. you have noone to loose him to.
2006-11-20 17:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but women are the all time best at mind games get it right
2006-11-20 17:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by auetim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
<< YAWN >>
2006-11-20 17:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i honestly cant say...................
2006-11-20 17:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋