he told my mom that he didnt want her in the family. and that she should be seen and not hurd. and my sister in law keeps getting an attiude with me after they asked us to move down here
2006-11-20 09:18:39 · 17 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
People are funny and so are relationships. We learn a lot about how to treat our parents once we are adults from watchin our parents interact with their own parents. Often times that clears up the mystery.
Alternatively there could be conversations going on that you are not a part of that makes your brother feel he has a right to treat her this way and he and his wife seem to be playing the suddenly wounded victims.
You don't give us a lot to go here - no details at all. If you want to help the situation you might talk to the individuals individually and work out the problem or you could just spend some time visualizing peace and harmony in your family. See you mother very clearly in your mind - and see her very happy and peaceful. Now allow your brother to enter the picture and see them hug and be comfortable and loving around each other. Maybe visualize everyone one together and happy and of course don't forget to see yourself, smiling and happy too.
Peace!
2006-11-20 09:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's Stupid! You Need To Step Up And Tell Him Off! If He Dont Like It Maybe He Shouldnt Been Seen Or Heard!
2006-11-20 17:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Handsome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Brother is not giving your mom any respect. and that is bad .
It seems as if it was a bad mistake moving there.
Your Mom needs to set your brother straight and
you need to do the same with your sister in law.
They are both going to ruin the family.
2006-11-20 17:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if my brother was talking like that to my mom, I would not be having that. Someone has to set him straight. If his girl was acting that way to me, I would kick her a*s in a heartbeat. She doesn't have to say anything to you at all. She can keep her mouth closed.
2006-11-20 17:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there a reason for it has she did something to him like a divorce are something maybe he just dont like her ways and it is my opinion that every once and a while moms can get on someones nerves but it dont mean that we dont love them.
2006-11-24 01:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by L42RAMI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister says that all of the time, personally i think that it is a crazy stage or sumthin. so hopefully he will grow out of it depends on the age my sister is 5!! good luck!!
2006-11-20 17:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by MissXMurder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why your brother is being mean to your mother. Have you asked him? Is this your scrap or just theirs? If you don't have to take sides, don't. Sounds as though your brother and his wife are quite angry. Is it possible for you to ask why?
2006-11-20 17:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should snap on your brother because thats not right she brung him in this world, or you should convince your mom to stick up for herself, and if your sister has a problem with you its her problem not yours
2006-11-20 17:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he proubly has a lot of stress
just tell him to take some lone time
2006-11-20 17:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he is a teen then he's got a reason. You get very rebellouis.
2006-11-20 17:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋