What are some signs he isn't in to me anymore? I have seemed to have been pushing him away, but I am so stressed and I moved away from home and I live down here where I don't know anyone... I don't know what to do I love him but he just seems like he is drifting away...
2006-11-20 09:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to him. It could be that he's just nervous about the future and doesn't realize that you're feeling this way. The only way to find out is by asking him.
2006-11-20 09:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all........ you need to calm down and chill out. He is most likely still into you but pushing away because he doesn't understand what you are all stressed out about. YOU still HIM and that is how he is looking at this and getting offended because he doesn't think that you see it that way at all. He is having a good time with living where you are living together, and as much as he wants you to do the same, he can't make you chill out and enjoy your life together if you won't or feel like you can't. He is your fiance' and you should be celebrating your life together and enjoying your piece of the earth together, you are suppose to be getting married and having this wonderful life together. Before he proposed to you everything was great, and calm and now here it is he proposes to you and life gets crazy and you get stressed and he is looking at you in another light he hadn't seen before, you may be pushing him away, far away. Calm down, breath, you have HIM in this new place where you are together......... take this wedding and the plans in stride and not be so stressed, this is a blessed event and suppose to be fun....... so have fun and include him in on it. BUT, very important............. don't let every other conversation be souly about the wedding and your future and how are things going to be. Believe it or not, that will ruin all of it for him. Take your time and you and him have some fun together, go out to the local hot spots in your area, experience it together, go see a movie, check out the restraunts that you and him have never been before. Enjoy your life with him, take your wedding planning one day at a time, and just relax. Please, spend some 'fun' time with your fiance'. All will be well. Men hate being stressed. Period. BLessed be...................
2006-11-20 09:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah, wow, I am going through the same exact stuff! We moved to NY (he lived here a year without me) and then I came up here, to a brand new place where I knew NO ONE..and I was pushing him away. I love him so much but last night he broke it off officially..saying he didn't love me anymore. We were also engaged. Engaged to single is NOT a good thing. It hurts. He started spending more time doing other things (working out) and having more time to himself. Also, he wouldn't talk to me as much..he would just be like "mm um" when I said something. He also stopped going places with me. He didn't want to do anything that I wanted but he made sure we went everywhere he wanted..I know there is no one else out there..he isn't that type of guy. Sometimes we do things to each other that block a feeling. Good luck..
2006-11-20 09:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kell Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he's not that in to you, he will not talk to you as often as he used to about yours or his day at work of where ever you've been, like he won't seem interested. Another way to tell is that he may be quiet around you? It's pretty much just a change in him towards you but if he hasn't been doing it for too long, he might just be going through some stress or worries of his own & that's how he deals with it? It may actually have nothing to do with the way he feels for you? You should ask approach him though - at least then you will know for sure. :O)
2006-11-20 09:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ignored you, when you ask him questions he acts like it's a big deal, or when you want to do something he says no, or he always disagrees with you. These are some signs. But ask him about his job, and how he's doing, because he may just be stressed about work. Don't take it to seriously if it's about work, that means he just needs some time to cool off.
2006-11-20 09:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by John A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. If you two are ready to get married then you should be able to work this little problem out. He might e nervous but you two shoudl communicate with each other. Just let him know how you feel and see what he thinks.
2006-11-20 09:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just give him some room. You being stressed out is probably stressing the relationship. You two need to go and do something fun and romantic, just the two of you. HAVE FUN!
2006-11-20 09:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Silent.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want any chance of saving your relationship, then you will do this.....talk about it. Sit down and explain to him that he has seemed distant. Ask him if there is anything bothering him or if he's still happy with your relationship. If he really loves you he will work with you to make things work.
2006-11-20 09:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am soo sorry.. i dont know what to tell you but it sounds like you're in an awful position right now. things will get better for you eventually... they always do. Just try talking to him. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-20 09:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Bridgett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋