Boyfriend may be cheating on me but I am not sure and I do not hae proof. It may be because he is just busy with college classes and does not hae that much time with me. He talked about breaking up recently and being just friends but he does not know. He then wants to invite me to Thanksgiving dinner and stuff with his family etc. etc.? I don't get it? What's the deal with him?
2006-11-20 09:16:18 · 20 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't answer anything about him, I don't know him. What I do know is if the relationship is over, then it should be ended as soon as possible. There is no reason to make something that isn't working drag on. It's bad for both parties involved. It is better to get on with both of your lives. Now with that said, I'm not saying end your relationship, but it sounds like you need to talk to him and find out exactly what his intentions are!
2006-11-20 09:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by jonthebrute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't really know what he wants. Why are you letting him make all the decisions? He talks about breaking up and just being friends and you're still with him? I don't think so!! I don't care how busy a guy is with classes, if he treasures his relationship, he will find the time to give to it! I think he could do Thanksgiving without me since he is teetering on the break-up fence. I'd make the decisions for myself and in this case, I'd settle for being just a casual friend. You deserve better than being with someone who talks about breaking up. I'd save him the trouble of deciding.
2006-11-20 09:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up a week after Thanksgiving. Since Thanksgiving is this Thursday, have dinner with his family and look nice and just eat. Just answer simple questions-be cordial.
Then, maybe Sunday or Monday, tell him that you believe that he has been cheating on you, you are not going to take it and then, break it off. This will give you almost a month or so to get over him and him over you. By Christmas time, you may have a new person in your life-or not. But, it is better then being with some jerk who is treaing you like s'hit to celebrate the holidays. I would celebrate it alone then with someone like that.
2006-11-20 09:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he's humping for 2 motives: he's no longer neutered and he's no longer experienced. Neutering will help with the humping yet this would be a dominance problem additionally. Get him fastened. Then set up some severe coaching. All of my canines are fastened yet each and every so many times they're going to try to hump one yet another. i do no longer enable it. i'm the dominant one. i do no longer enable them to undertaking my management.
2016-12-28 07:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not sure about your relationship, are you willing to wait for him to be sure? That can hurt you more, you know. You should break-up when it doesn´t feel right, not if the time/season is right. There is nothing worse than pretending you´re feeling something that it isn´t there or being a bf/gf out of pity.
2006-11-20 09:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by ICTgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? What would make you happiest?
If you want to stay with him, then, ask him what's going on. Not telling each other the truth when you're in a relationship seems to make it a lot less happy and fun and healthy.
If you want to break up with him, be totally clear about it. Don't be in the relationship when you know you don't want to be. It seems considerate, but it probably will just make him confused and angry that you aren't being clear about your intentions.
2006-11-20 09:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by kaylachilds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not right, break up. If it is, but its just strained right now, stick it out. Dont let the holiday season be your excuse to stay in a bad relationship.
2006-11-20 09:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rum_Punch_Girlie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I would say is if you have issues you need to confront them whatever the time of year. What is the point in pretending to others you are happy when you aren't/ It is your relationship no one else's and you need to get some trust back into your relationship otherwise what is the point?
2006-11-20 09:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do u think that he's going to break up with u? If ur unhappy then go ahead. But he could just be busy with college classes!!!
2006-11-20 09:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by yourbiggestfan:) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl wait until after the holidays so that you can get your Christmas gift first. Get something out of the deal.
2006-11-20 09:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by cpewitte27 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋