We broke up 2 weeks ago and I miss her a lot. will I look like a idiot if I contact her now and try to get her back. Will I be a laughing stock in her eyes???
2006-11-20 09:13:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You idiot, you break up with her, get your freedom and now you want to willingly get back into the same misery you just left behind?
Hey, what can I say, that is the kind of stuff love is made of!!!
But seriously here are the points to ponder (and trust me you are not going to be reasonable about it -- and what the heck, you probably won't even want to.)
1. Why did you get together in the first place?
2. What were the unique qualities about her that attracted you to her? Oh! please! please! physical appearances do not count -- hot body, sexy curves, luscious lips -- that sort of thing!
3. What do you recollect about your best moments with her?
4. Where do you recollect spending those moments?
(I personally find that my best moments were spent in a restaurant, eating our favorite foods; in a theatre (or at home) watching a movie; among friends, going on a vacation to San Francisco; at church, etc.)
5. What were the best remarks about her that anybody made that you treasure most?
OK... now, why did you break up? Did you goof up? If it relates to your relationship involving a third person from either side, my friend, back off! No, really! It is best for the two of you to move on!
If it involves finances, then you have some hope, very little though! Nothing like finances that can break up a relationship. You (both) need to come clean with your money matters, especially, your debt (credit cards, store cards, loans, etc). This is stuff that can kill every romantic moment you can cook up.
Now if it involves adjustments to be made which one of you, or both, refused to make -- trivial as it may sound, MOVE on!!! If you can't make adjustments now, you will never EVER make them! Unfortunately, beyond the senses rattling feeling of romance, love and relationships are all about adjustments -- not the small immaterial adjustments; I am talking about big, inconvenient adjustments, the ones where your job / studies / career could be in jeopardy, the ones which will leave your family wondering if they really matter in your life anymore!
More than being a laughing stock in her eyes, are you man enough to consider the tough challenges -- not just in this relationship -- but any other relationship you might have to endeavor.
2006-11-20 09:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Taurus Fan... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Would Look Stupid..But That Doesnt Matter If You Want Her Back.. Make Sure You Get Her Some Flowers!
2006-11-20 09:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Handsome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you broke up. If you cheated on her I'd say leave her be and let her get on with her life. If there were other reasons then maybe she misses you too. You never know until you try.
2006-11-20 09:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might depending on the reason you guys broke up. You would really have to get down to the real reason. If it was your fault or if the reason is unclear, then no, you won't look like a fool. If she chose to end it, then you might....
2006-11-20 09:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ha ha I am laughing...just kidding, but seriously yeah I would leave that one alone iot really depends on how old you are and what the situation is, but I guess if you really love her it would not matter if you get laughed at because you are willing to go to any length to get her back. good luck.
2006-11-20 09:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Free & Sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 10:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her in a really sweet voice that it was a big mistake and u still love her. let her think about it and if she loves u, she will take u back
2006-11-20 09:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by *~kirsti~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how you go about it. if you go and beg, then you probablly will. but if you talk to her and she doesnt have a boyfriend then you should try it. maybe you could buy her flowers or a box of chocolate and just talk!
2006-11-20 09:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you will be laughed at. You should probably go get another girl. Its my suggestion.
2006-11-20 09:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men who are in love are fools. Don't let that stop you if you are truly in love.
2006-11-20 09:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋