okay me and this guy have been dating off and on for about 3 years and well about 5 monthes ago we took a break and then everything was going freat and we were doing good better thatn ever and thne all the sudden he wants to be with one of his ex girlfriends? out of no where!!! and we were doing great we were about to start dating again and he knew that... when i talk to him about it all he says is that he made a mistake and he wishes he hadn't done it. i told him if he really wanted to be with me and he loved me to tell her and she'd understand. but he says he can't do that to her. and my dad was helping him fix his truck before this all happened and then when he got it fixed he did this.. i told him it seemed like he used my family but he says he didn't. he tells me he still loves me but he can't hurt her and he wants me to give t time...but i feel hurt and used... should i totally move on? HELP!!
2006-11-20 08:52:36 · 18 answers · asked by b a b y : ) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on. guys like these just tell girls what they wanna hear so they can have many of them on their good side, he'll probly come running back soon enough, but i'd say hes not worth it. move on
2006-11-20 08:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are. But after 3 years of seeing someone off and on - the ons should definately be winning out if this was a relationship that should last. If he "can't hurt her" by just being honest with her and letting her down gently (to be a nice guy) and be back steady and forever with you, ---I really think it is time to admit that he isn't the one for you. There are a lot of nice guys out there, you just need to put yourself in good places to meet them and what is meant to be will happen. Your "boyfriend" sounds like he is not ready to commit to you - just to use your past as a current "what ever meets the moment relationship" is certainly not good nor fair to you. Move on sweetie and good luck on finding Mr. Right - he is out there!
2006-11-20 09:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by justamomthatcares 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG yes.. yes.. move on.. its not worth it. i've been thro that before and its not fun!! trust me you already sound like he's been a jumbo hastle, so dump his fat sorry but! Pleease do yourslf a favor and MOVE ON. He is sooo not worth it!!!!! Just maybe STAY friends with him. relastionships that go on and off on and off, dont work out realy well. My best friend did that for 2 years and they just ended up braking up for GOOD!! so totally take my advice, i would never want to write this long of a response if i didn't mean this!! DUMP HIM!!! Tell him to go see his b**** of an "ex girlfriend" and forget about you!!!!! email me ok!!! my_monkey_business99@yahoo.com
Sam~
2006-11-20 09:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he says he loves you and doesnt love her but she is the one he doesnt want to hurt. That makes no sense at all. I think he is playing you for a fool, next he will want to come see you and have the best of both worlds. I hope you havent already seen him and given in to him.
2006-11-20 08:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 07:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOTALLY move on! His concerns for the other girl are outweighing his supposed affection for you. He has made his choice. NOW go find a great guy who will love and respect you.
2006-11-20 08:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend has the same issue! guys can be players, they wanna see who is best, just not in the right way. it sounds like you were more that best to him, and if he can't see that i think its time to move on! find a guy that will look at you think about you and only you, not worrying about hurting another girls feelings
2006-11-20 08:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in you anymore. Move on! I think if you and him loved each other so much, than you should not have taken a break from one another.
2006-11-20 08:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on as he did use you. It does not sound like he cares for you like he says. You would be better off without him.
2006-11-20 08:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by voidtillnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes move on
I had something like that happen to me
2006-11-20 09:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋