my brother's girl?

Question

My brother's girlfriend is a real b***. She told me last year just before Christmas that my brother told her that we are not related, and that we just act like it on holidays. On Christmas I asked him and he denied it, which I believe him because we always get along. She also told my mother one year that we were going to get her a T.V. for Christmas, and asked her if it had to be a Sony because she saw one on sale for $100. When my brother and I decided already that we were gonna pay half each for the Sony one we already picked out. I really don't feel comfortable around her at all, but my mom wants to see her son and grandkids and also me and my family, but I don't want to go to Christmas, but we only get together on holidays. I have not seen or talked to her since last Christmas (the one that I ruined because i told my brother what she had said). We are going to be at my mom's very small one bedroom apartment,, what should I do to get through the day? And am I wrong?

Answer 1

Wow ! well i guess you can show up but show up late ... and if she insist on being rude towards you let her know than I am not here for you I am here for my family aka my brother and mother. Not my brothers adopted girlfriend. LOL! Also don't let her see that she annoys you... from the words of Mariah "Shake her off" Wait she is a baby momma right? SO, she is bound for drama ... If she is bothering you let her know how you feel just don't get hostile about it

Answer 2

Your not right, but your not wrong. Its his relationship, I think you should just try to get along with her, and make the best of it. IMy situation is totally different, but I always had a issue with my boyfriends sister, and Ive just learned to be nice and smile in her face so that you won't get the finger pointed at when sides have to be taken. So just do that to your brothers girlfriend, be nice so that when there actually is a problem your brother might consider how your feeling. My boyfriend has realize his sister is the problem and doesn't pay her any mind. Keep in mind... BE MATURE. It helps in the end.

Answer 3

See your mom on a different holiday like Thanksgiving, and mail her a Christmas present. Tell your mom that your brother's g/f is causing you problems and no one enjoys the holidays when the 2 of you are together.

Answer 4

I can understand your frustration with her. Unfortunately, we don't get to pick who our siblings date or marry. I think in your situation, I would try to be the bigger person and just cope with her. It's not like you have to be her friend, you just need to be cordial. Also, you don't want to give her the impression that you would rather not go to your mom's because she'll be there. Don't let her have the upperhand because believe it or not sometimes our "enemies" like to see us miserable. So go to your moms, enjoy your day, don't even act like you're bothered by her and just be cordial - you even said, you only see her during the holidays. The day will go faster than you even know!

Answer 5

Try your very best to forget about last year and make this year as happy as possible.

Even if you don't like her and she's a real turd, you should still try to put on a happy face.

If you feel up to it, on a NON holiday day, confront her...by herself....and see if you two can work it out.

Answer 6

i know how you feel i have 2 older brothers and one older sister and they are all married and i dont like there wives and husband but i act decent for the holidays for my parents and brothers and sister you should do the same

Answer 7

It is only one day out of the whole year---your mom won't always be around so do it for your mom-----just try to stay opposite of the dreaded girlfriend......try your hardest to enjoy yourself for your mother's sake...............

Answer 8

Try to avoid by sitting next to someone else. Don't feed into her lies and negativity, just nod your head and say "I see".