2006-11-20 08:37:35 · 8 answers · asked by primpingfortheprom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It always nice if one never ever have to grow up. Unfortunately, life isn't like that. Yes, differences do happened when one grows up and this is no difference in sibling relationship or even in parents' relationship. What is most important it to always remember that no matter what happens, family support is of utmost importance so don't lose that! One way to avoid any ugly scenes would be to comment less unless the comments are motivational and be generous with compliments afterall they are free! Best wishes.
2006-11-20 08:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are and some are not. I have a twin sister (we are super close) and I have a little sister (who I have never really gotten along with). I think that our childhood sets the tone for our relationships with our siblings and the way we see our parents interact with our siblings. It is hard to get over childhood hurts sometimes, even though we have grown out of the behavior that caused them,
In a nutshell, I would say that the difficulty with adult siblings is learned and can often be changed if both sides are willing. On the other hand - just because you are related does not mean you are similar or that you can really relate to one another. There are family members who will never get along and we need to remember that they are there, then, for a different reason. Maybe to give us insight into how other's live or to test our own patience and help it to grow stronger.
Peace!
2006-11-20 08:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO, some are difficult and some are not.
As adults, the "ego" they have are mature and doesn't always agree with their fellow sibling. Ironically they are immature when adults should act mature.
2006-11-20 08:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cali C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, first permit me permit you comprehend that i'm an adoptive mom. My daughter became accompanied the international over, and we can possibly never meet her birthfamily. this would be a sort of themes, i think of, that doesn't only pass away in case you prefer to no longer communicate with them. there's a diverse dynamic right here than, permit's say, you have been identifying no rely if or no longer they have been your friends. there's a complicated problem, and going to a counselor would desire to offer help to artwork out what a number of those complexities recommend to you. (no one else) you may additionally locate out that as your organic and organic siblings mature, they do no longer look to be as stimulated by utilising your biomom. do you prefer to leave the door open for them. Now, additionally- it sounds as in the adventure that your birthmom's habit is impacting you- it relatively is hurting. you do no longer would desire to choose to be injury by utilising everyone. i comprehend, recognizing that somebody's habit is poisonous, and rather feeling it are 2 countless issues. A counselor would additionally supply help to artwork out how and in case you prefer to react/behave to her and birthdad. are you able to start up a relationship with him without her suitable now? you comprehend, my coping mechanism in many situations is "only wait" so i think of the baking away and letting or no longer it relatively is difficulty would artwork for me. yet, and this would be an excellent yet. Will it artwork for you? comprehend that in spite of you choose, that there are lots of people who would prefer to furnish you stable needs and help. i think of being accompanied has a confusing path at cases, and that i'm hoping you experience supported by way of it. nicely, stable success. i'm hoping your birthmom gets some help and treats you greater proper quickly.
2016-12-28 06:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because even though we mature in age, we are still the same immature kids we were when it comes to families. usually, the things that bothered us as kids, come with us as we, so called, get older. the only difference is, they become more pronounced with age. while as kids, we are told to cut out the nonsense by our parents - we are now in charge, so if things get to us, we are allow to rant and rave to get our point across. and, of course, being adults, everyone thinks they are right. silly, isn't it?
2006-11-20 08:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause when we grow we mature in different ways/ path/ directions. expectations in life are different, which makes opinions different and things uncompromising.
2006-11-20 08:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have to respects each other more and you are not as close to one another as you used to be
2006-11-20 08:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by franklino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: Jealousy. Maybe they are more successful or have what you want. Or vice versa. :)
2006-11-20 08:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋