my cousin gives me guilt trips all the timeabout hanging out w/ my boyfriend. but the thing that pisses me off is that i see her every day @ school and she stays the night w/ me every weekend. every time she says something to me about hanging out w/ him i just want to say " you know what i see you every day and i am sick of u giving me **** about it. you need to wake up and realize my life doesn't revolve around you. so you need to quit giving me **** about it." ok so i need answers because i started crying in school because i am so ******* sick of her giving me **** about it. if u know where i am coming from, u will know how i feel. if u don't know what i am going through then picture what it would b like. i almost blew up on her today but i thought that she would tell her mom then her mom would my mom and then i wouldn't be able to see my boyfriend. even though i haven't seen him in 5 weeks and that is also one of the reasons i was crying. i know i sound like a whiner but i need help
2006-11-20 08:37:12 · 6 answers · asked by jack_attack0322 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her to get a man. Maybe hook her up with one of your male friends or boyfriend's friends. She just needs to get used to being without you. You sound like you were pretty close. It just takes time.
2006-11-20 08:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by poisonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to realize that she does not get all your time. I had friends like this, that would try to make me feel bad for spending time with my bf. But I told them that I'm sorry they didn't have anyone at the time, and if they did they would know where I was coming from. We spent time together in school, and I made certain days just for them. Then at night and on Saturday, it was me and my bf. They finally understood, and stuck by me. I see where you are coming from, but do not blow up at her. Let her know that she is your cousin and that will never change. That you need your time too. Good luck! :)
2006-11-20 08:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a boyfriend and get a life and stay out of yours. If that doesnt work tell her "are you going to sexually satisfy me" if she answers yes then you got a crazy a s s family. LOL
2006-11-20 08:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because u know what u did and ur cousin does 2 so she or he dont need 2 tell u nonthin
2006-11-20 08:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no go for it
2006-11-20 08:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not
2006-11-20 08:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋