I just moved into my first apartment and everything was fine until my sister asked if she and her 4 kids could move in with me. Already, my place is trashed and my man is threating to move out. I'm not the one to turn away from family because she let me stay with her when I didn't have a place to live, but SHE GOT TO GO!!! Any suggestion?
2006-11-20 08:30:52 · 8 answers · asked by Lainiepooh81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Never have another woman in the house with your man.
2006-11-20 08:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by poisonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to make a plan for moving out. A job, a savings account to get deposits, whatever stage she's at. Get a time table. If she stalls around, charge her rent, and put that money away for her rent deposits.
2006-11-20 16:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with her. Out of respect for you she should be cleaning up, and straightening up anything that her kids mess up. If she can''t be respectful about your home and relationship then I would say she has got to go.
2006-11-20 16:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by cookiefactory4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister there are rules in your house and if she can't follow them she has to move. Also give her a date that she needs to find her own place.Good luck
2006-11-20 16:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by LANA R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just talk to her and tell her that you also share your place with ur bf/husband and that you both need to take him into consideration with all of this. their staying there affects him to and because he lives there he has a say in what happens in the household.
2006-11-20 16:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your apartment is big enough you should let her stay till she can find a place!!!and if you let her tell her 2 pick up her and her kids to pick up after themselves!!!
2006-11-20 16:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice but frim tell her she & her kids need to start helping around the house and clean up after themselve or else they have to go
2006-11-20 16:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her politly to clean up after herself. Tell her what is going on.
2006-11-20 16:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Billys girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋