2006-11-20 08:14:05 · 27 answers · asked by IwishicoulddeleteYahooAnswers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have broken up with him over this but feel very uncertain if it is the right thing to do.
He actually dosent earn that much and when we were together was a real financil burden ON ME.
2006-11-20 08:21:58 · update #1
The question you need to ask yourself is do you really want him to. I met a man three years ago, moved in. I thought I was crazy about him. At the time he was on unemployment from his high paying job. At first he moved in with me. That worked out fine. He treated me with respect. Then I had a stroke, and became disabled.Then his children started interfering. That was disastrous for us. My best advice is don't ever give him the upper hand. Once they get the upper hand you are in the dust, They only change if you force them.
2006-11-20 08:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by newbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI girl, find out why he is working so hard. If he does not earn a lot, he will have to work harder. I used to be like that, not really placing my job above her, but had to make some sacrifices. She knew why and will tell me, she understands, but as soon as she is lonely, she forgot all about it. She finally left, now my hard work is paying, I have saved and invested a lot, now do go out much more with my new girlf, but she is still there....same as we were hmmmmmmm! Think, babe and talk things with him, you may regret if you make a hasty decision. good luck!
2006-11-20 10:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem was too much dependence on your boyfriend. Don't you have a job of your own to focus on? If you did, you might have appreciated each other more when you were able to get together. Personally, I would always value my work life over my love life. That's why I've chosen not to have a love life until my work life is over.
2006-11-20 11:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not...
He may have a particular goal in sight that is
demanding a lot of work at this time, perhaps
once this goal is realized, he can devote more
attention to g/f....
2006-11-20 08:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely no... Unless the circumstances change, like marriage or children... If they give 100 percent to their jobs, really what's left for you?
2006-11-20 08:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O, sure. One day, right out of the blue, he will stop working so much and love you. It will be the same day pigs fly.
2006-11-20 08:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience only about 15 years later when he realises what he's lost.
2006-11-20 08:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't change! (Sorry!)
But be the optimist it's a way better than a lazy guy with a newspaper near you!))
2006-11-20 08:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by malibovich 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cannot change the other person in a relationship, we ladies want a man to change but they will not.
2006-11-20 08:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by reene2g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they always say you don't know what you've got till its gone and this is a classci situation like that!! However you may wish to buy "Click" the movie for him - may hit home for him!!
2006-11-20 08:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by winegal74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋