there is a guy wo is like 10 yrs older than me..he loves me to his death and i kind of have same feelings to him..but i keep on telling him that i dont love him coz he is odler than me
do u think age matters in love?
2006-11-20 08:07:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, ten years is not that big of a difference for two adults who truly love one another. I need point no further than my grandparents for a good example of this. Both sets of my grandparents were ten years apart in age. Both sets were happily married for over sixty-five years. When my grandfathers finally passed away, their wives were there at their side holding their hands. In my mind, there can be no greater love than the type shared by my grandparents.
So, with that said, if you love him and he loves you, and the two of you can honor and respect one another, then I say go for it!
Best wishes!
2006-11-20 08:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't usually matter in a relationship on the inside. Its only everyone on the outside it seems to have a problem with it. A guy dating an older woman is more socially acceptable then a man dating a younger girl. In Asian cultures a younger woman marrying an older gentleman is considered an intelligent move.
My wife and I have been married 8 years and she is 15 years younger than I am. Age has never been an issue.
You say he loves you to death and you have the same feelings for him but you tell him you don't love him. Stop hiding behind what other people want you to do. Tell him you love him if that's true.
If you're over 20 and have dated other people then maybe you should consider being with him. If you're under 20 and you really need to wait. You need the date others. Take it a little slow. Learn what else is out there before getting into more committed relationship.
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2006-11-20 16:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of think it matters. I think up to 5 years older is a good age. 10 would just be awkward. It's like a 5 yr old w/ a 15 yr old. Awkward huh? Lol.
2006-11-20 16:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Reach for the stars* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 yrs is that not that big of age difference i know a lot of people in similar age gap but are very happy together
2006-11-20 16:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age shouldn't matter as long as both parties are of legal age. But it seems to bother you. Don't waste his time if you cant get over it yourself.
2006-11-20 16:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age ain't nothing but a number.
Unless you're 10 and he's 50, haha...
2006-11-20 16:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by coolgurl_5us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter in love.
2006-11-20 16:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the ages involved.
2006-11-20 16:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its depends on what,an other side if you feel good with that thing then age no matter
2006-11-20 16:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dennis m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ... if it's bigger than 5 years...and u can state that a person is in love with you to his death.... u can never be certain of love...
2006-11-20 16:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋