Well it all started in my last year in sumer school. I had just gotten over a bad relationship and all of a sudden this really nice, funny, and very sweet guy which i knew for a month and was very close to asked me out. We started dateing and all of a sudden alot of other girls started saying that i was cheating and useing him! He ended it with me and i thought that i wouldent be so upset, but its been 5 months now adn its really hard to get over it. Iv tried finding someone new, but he told everybody in my school that i was a whore and that they shouldent trust me. WQhat should i do adn how do i say im sorry adn tell him the truth without embarressing myself? plz give me a seriouse answer and thank you for reading.
2006-11-20 07:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that you did not cheat on him you thought to nuch of him and you had your heart broken why would you do it to someone else and he is prob going around saying that because he really liked you and he is hurt to but he doesnt want to put on like it though
2006-11-20 07:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy didn't believe you when you said that you were not cheating he may well have been trying to find a way out of the relationship. You sound like a great person and deserve someone who will be honest with you. Never look for love as it doesn't happen on cue. The right person for you will come into your life when you are least expecting it. Try not to waste any more time thinking about this guy just go out and enjoy yourself.Good Luck.
2006-11-20 07:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by tiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if you know that you didn't do anything that stop beating yourself up over those lies. He's not that cool of a guy if he believes everyone over you. You will find someone better but it will take time sweetheart! Learn how to be alone...... don't always look for people because when you do and you find someone...$hit like this happens! Do what makes you happy and eventually the right guy will come along! stay happy and screw everyone that is in the way of your happiness!!! good luck =)
2006-11-20 07:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 04:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read one thing that indicates that you should apologize! You did nothing wrong at all!!! I think he is the one who should apologize for saying this stuff about you!!!
I really think he is not a good guy for ruining your reputation in school...and you really don't need to apologize or explain anything to him...you deserve an apology and explanation from him!
I think all you need to do right now is to do something to fill your time...try putting more time and effort into a hobby of yours for example...fill your time with stuff to do and leave it to time...time will help you forget all this...and when the time is right...you will meet a great person!!!
2006-11-20 07:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about it. He should have given you the opportunity to explain your version to see if the rumors were true and since he is actually spreading rumors about you without them being true, that should be enough for you to see he is not worth it. I would ignore the rumors since you know they are not true and would show them who you really are and they will notice that you are not what the rumors say you are.
2006-11-20 07:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by muñeca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this. 'i love you and i want you to trust me, we hav the most precious moment that no body will ever understand only you and me, no matter what ppl say about me, i don care all i care is you, do you love me because you love me or juse because you want somethin from me ?' this question you willcehck weather he is serious with you or not, if he still act that way , you can 4get about him because he is a coward.
2006-11-20 07:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....well first don't be angry with yourself. it's not your fault. and second.....it is going to be very hard telling him the truth so i guess i would just tell him sraight up the way it is. maybe he will believe you maybe he won't. i am soo sorry about your situation. and i am sorry that my advice probably sucks.
-good luck!!!!!!
2006-11-20 07:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Raine[: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about other girls... they r haters and they r jealous because u r cute and got the dude
2006-11-20 07:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by mzvirgo19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋