I think of myself as an honest, faithful, and loving person who isn't looking for a fantasy man, but just someone who'll love me for me and treat my boys as their own because its me & my kids or nothing at all, a man that is family oriented, doesn't matter whether he has lots of money, but isn't afraid of hard work.
2006-11-20 07:34:20 · 12 answers · asked by Tx Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what you mean by "the one".
Is the one someone who is going to find you, or are you looking for him? How picky are you? If you are looking for just one in a haystack you may have a long look.
Everyone is different. No man will be everything to you. Every strength that you value comes with a weakness which will bug you at the very least if not cause you to resent him. What you need to do is the following:
1) Identify what you value in life. Morals, life style, free time activites. Then make sure these values are shared.
2) Identify where you are going. Are you going to dedicate yourself to being active in your church, or saving animals. If you share these with a partner you will find you have a lot in common.
3) Understand your own love languages and try to find someone with similar buttons.
Now you have many that will fit you nicely.
Stay positive and actively look.
2006-11-20 07:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you will find him, but don't look too hard. Just right when you least expect it, it'll happen. Also, make sure that he wants a family 'cause by you havin' kids, it might scare him off. Watch the way he treats your kids, too. If you think for any reason or feel for any reason that he may not be treating your kids right, kick his a** to the curb. There shouldn't be any doubts. I hope this helped ya! :)
2006-11-20 07:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal suggestion is go on some dates... In your town there probably have those 7 or 8 minute dating nights, you should try it. You're probably saying I'm too old for that or i don't have the time, but if you don't kind of look for what you want then you'll just be a sitting duck sitting waiting for your break. What is meant for you will be for you but have fun doing it. Smile
2006-11-20 07:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by sweettrini1012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a hard time finding somebody fitting the description of your "dreamt" husband. Most men don't want to deal with previous marriage kids. In any event, I wish you the best...
2006-11-20 07:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by The Muffin Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a piece of advice from what i read here...
i don't know about what age range your looking for in a man, but myself (i'm 26), i wouldn't have a problem going out with a woman that had a child or two, but in the begining if she expected me to be the father for her family right off the bat, i'd leave...
don't shove the kids in his face right away... slowly ease them into things...
i'm not saying don't mention them at all, you have to tell him that you have kids... but don't expect him to be 'Dad' right away... not only does he have to be ready for that role, but the kids have to be ok with him too...
2006-11-20 07:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look and he will find you. I tried it. The man of my dreams walked in my office. I have been dating him ever since. He is the best thing that ever happen to me. Good Luck!
2006-11-20 07:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by theresa kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will, just don't grab the first guy to come around.
2006-11-20 07:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there just waiting for you.
2006-11-20 07:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will =]
You just have to give it time.
2006-11-20 07:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Christine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for him,enjoy yourself with whatever makes u happy!
2006-11-20 07:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by condy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋