Guys who show a romantic interest in me, I'm never attracted to them, while the guys I'm attracted to, aren't interested in me. Is this just chance, or is there something going on mentally that I'm not realizing.
2006-11-20 07:30:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We always lust for something that we can't have.....
2006-11-20 07:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem since I was about 16! It's not you or them, it's just that you haven't found the person you obviously need in your life. I am now 29, and have finally found someone I click with, but every so often I look at him and wonder if I really fancy him. However, it isn't always about looks, and he mentally stimulates me which is a great help. Give it time.
2006-11-20 15:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by pniccimiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be time to reassess what your looking for. Unfortunately many women are turned off by nice guys who can provide them with a secure happy life and are turned on by bad boys who can do them nothing but bad.
As much as you think it isn't an issue - you might want to look into the possibility that you have a fear of commitment. Your problem is a perfect description of just that.
Peace
2006-11-20 15:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Blondana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can look at the good guys that show interest and see something you find attractive. Get to know them first and see if they have something that catches your attention that you didn't notice at first.
2006-11-20 15:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit back for a minute and think about a couple of things...
why is it you are attracted to these guys... what about them makes you attracted... is this the kind of guy you want to be with for the rest of your life, or would you not be able to stand them after a time...
now you need to think about what it is you really want in a guy... what qualities to you want them to have, and what are some things you want to make sure he doesn't have... now think, where would a guy like this hang out with friends? is that where you're finding the guys that arn't interested in you??
hope this helps.
2006-11-20 15:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M EXPERIENCING THE SAME THING , I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO MAKE OF IT. THE GUYS THAT LIKE ME ARE GREAT GUYS AND ARE WILLING TO REALLY SHOW ME A GOOD TIME , BUT FOR SOME REASON I'M NOT ATTRACTED TO THEM IN A RELATIONSHIP TYPE WAY . ON THE OTHER HAND THE GUYS THAT I LIKE ARE UNTOUCHABLE AND ARE KINDA LIKE BAD BOYS SO I DON'T' KNOW LOL I HOPE YOU GET YOUR ANSWER BECAUSE I'M TO STILL LOOKING FOR ONE.
2006-11-20 15:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to look deeper than the outside of a guy, Looks aren't always whats attractive
2006-11-20 15:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by sassysouthernbell9900 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you want what you can't have. Eventually this will lead to a bad ending.
Some guy you like that does not really like you will hang around for sex. You will get pregnant and he will be gone.
2006-11-20 15:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Evey kid thinks of themself as in the middle of the popularity chart. Then the people they like are way more popular than they are. So there for they think it would be a mircle if they asked you out. And last lame lozers. People who are weird to kids are considered lozers. And to them they think ur popular so than they like you.
2006-11-20 15:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like bad boys then.but they are just going to hurt you. you like being hurt? Get with the ones attracted to you.youll be much happier.
you want something that you cant have, that how it usually wants.
I want this girl but she doesnt want me,and that makes me want her even more.
Its all mental
2006-11-20 15:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fiend for what you cannot get...its just a phase you'll get over it.
2006-11-20 15:33:52 · answer #11 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋