I have had 4 LTRs and a slew of flings. I am in all Honesty a very attractive man, women stare all the time. I have been meeting women from online. They all say the same thing, that they want the nice guy but then they pick the Azzhole and then complain about him. I look like a bad boy, Muscles and Tattoos, but on the inside I am a romantic. Why am I still alone??? I am a catch and won't settle for less than Being Happy, I deserve at least that.
2006-11-20 07:25:32 · 15 answers · asked by Andrew P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm, how old are the ladies that you are dating. If they are younger, maybe they don't have sense of what a good catch you are.
Also, guys have to realize that even though you may be sexy, attractive, and a nice guy, there must be chemistry between two people for it to last.
Chemistry can make a person stay with someone that may not be their general "type" of guy. Relationships are trial and error and all those relationships that didn't work out just made u learn more about what you do not want and things that you do want in a future mate.
Shiiiit, hit me up...I may be Ms. Right. Im 32 and appreciate a good man. (sorry, had to throw that in) lol
2006-11-20 07:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Viva C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, you deserve to be happy. Women for some odd reason pick the *** hole and complain about there never being any nice guys. However don't give up hope yet. I am in a relationship with a bad boy/romantic like yourself. He's 36. But you are just beginning to hit your prime. Perhaps you're looking in the wrong places? Try going to a library or a coffee shop. Happy hunting my friend!
2006-11-20 07:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Paola G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a sincere guy. Maybe you have high expectations of women, and that's why it is hard for you to settle down with someone. Or maybe you just haven't found the right person yet.
Sometimes when you are "looking" for a significant other, it won't happen, but if you just give it time, and stop looking, maybe it will just happen for you.
Goodluck.
2006-11-20 07:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are losing out by not acting cocky and funny. Nice guys finish last....remember? If you act ( truthfully ) like you could go either way, then women will try to change your mind. By contrast, if you're acting like a wuss and submitting to everything they want, they'll have no respect for you. You don't have to be mean...just ambivilent. Ask any real woman...its the chase they like. No is a powerful word...more men need to use it.
Bottom line...quit being so nice..and start doing what you want to do insitnctively. You'll be a "chick magnet" by Christmas if you are sincere.
2006-11-20 07:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by James S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i would suggest that you shouldnt look for girls online and maybe you arent as good looking as you would like to think you are not to be mean but usually if your that good looking you wouldnt have a problem meeting girls outside of the internet
2006-11-20 07:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever thought of trying to meet a women in person and not online. people might think you are just faking everything if they never meet u in person
2006-11-20 07:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kendall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ego? The best kinds of men are the ones that are awesome and don't know it. I know it sounds crazy, but I'd take brains over look anyday. Of course, I didn't have too.
2006-11-20 07:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound like you're a dirty boy....most girls would go for that.....I don't know.....Maybe you have a low self esteem! Or maybe you move too quickly, that can turn a girl off.
2006-11-20 07:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to be in your shoes as a girl version.
2006-11-20 07:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are a nice guy and probably act like one. That kills it.
2006-11-20 07:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋