how do u know if your boyfreind means it when he says he loves u?

Question

like if how can u tell if he really means it

Answer 1

Read this. It will answer your question:

Love
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who
calls
you
> > >> >> back when you hang up on him, who will stay
awake just to
> > >>watch
> > >> >> you sleep.
> > >> >
> > >> >> Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead,
who wants to show
> > >>you
> > >> >> off to
> > >> >> the
> >world when you are in your sweats, who holds your
hand in
> > >>front
> > >> >
> > >> >> of his friends. Wait for the one who is
constantly
> > >>reminding
> > >> >> you of how
> > >> >> much he cares about you and how lucky he is
to have you.
> > >>Wait
> > >> >> for the
> > >> >> one who turns to his friends and
says,".....that's her."

these things tell you that a boy really loves you.

Answer 2

Being a guy, I think I can answer this pretty well. Most women have us labeled completely wrong, meaning that they tend to go along with all the sterotypes that guys have.

Here's the first thing. If a guy says he loves you, he really does. Yeah, I can just hear women all over the world telling me I'm full of it, but you have to realize something. We don't say we love you to get anything out of you, and not to be harsh, but we have no problem getting anything anyhow. We say we love you because we really do and are ready to move to that next level. We are reaady to commit to one person.

And probably the biggest thing is this. If a guy says he loves you, and nothing comes out of it except a warm hug, you've found yourself a winner.

Answer 3

confident ....yet, basically at ''that 2nd'', it became into meant .....and not something 'long term' or enduring. The word, 'JaTame', in French, ability 'I easily have Love for You', and often I easily have felt that I easily have had to declare 'i admire You' ~ yet, have realised that what I easily have meant is that 'I easily have Love for you' ...this is different. And, i've got on no account yet used any of those 3 words to objective and get somebody into mattress or to entrap a woman / female right into a sexual dating. If no longer something els, then i'm pleased with that checklist. Sash.

Answer 4

Some guys actually mean what they say but in my experience... Actions speak louder than words! When they go out of their way to do things for you...always put you first, afraid to disappoint you...when what you say matters...that is when a guy really has feelings for you. If a guy is always blowing you off, getting caught not doing what he says he is going to do, etc., well then he is not serious.

Answer 5

Buy what he DOES - not what he says. If he loves you and he is a good guy - he notices the things you like and remembers it, he opens doors for you, he takes the time to listen to you, treats you with respect and never abuses you.

Women listen to what men say and not what they do and that is where they get into trouble.
Men dont listen to what we say (and we usually say a lot) - they listen to what we do. Unfortunately we often dont do what we say we will.
Actions speak MUCH louder than words.

Remember - Dont ever ask yourself if you are good enough for him - ask yourself if he is good enough for you. Then you will do just fine.

Answer 6

There is no 100% way you can know. Unless you put him on a lie detector, he might not love you after.

Just go with what your gut tells you. Also, look at his previous relationships and even friendships as a compass to his moral behavior.

Answer 7

Okay i have been in love once and the i could tell that my boy friend really loved me is when he looked into my eyes. so if he looks into your eyes and says it than he is most likely telling the truth you know what they say the eyes do not lie.

Answer 8

Everyone can say those three little words. I have always gone with the theory that actions speak louder then words. If he shows you that he loves you, then you will know.

Answer 9

its the little things that mean the most.. does he do those kinds of things for u.. im sure he shows u he loves u right? why dont u talk to him and see what he says to u that way.. u never know til u try right.

Answer 10

If he says that he loves you, and you have an honest, caring, open relationship, then you should believe him. If he is untrustworthy, and you are questioning if he means it, then why are you with him in the first place?