I am girl. When I am around guys, and some of them have been potentional hook ups or ones I have dated. They tell me they always like the girl to get to orgasm first or they want to give the orgasm first before they get their. well when a guy gets their orgasm is it really because of the girl or are they just getting it them selves. also when a guy says he wants a girl to orgasm first, does he really care about the girl and wants her to experience something really good, or is it more of an ego booster. Also is it true that some girls do not orgasm. I thought I saw on Sunday Nigh Sex talk with sue Johansen that some girls do not orgasm. This one guy told me that all girls orgasm, you just have to find the right spot and the right postion, like doggy style. I wonder if he realized that some girls might have been faking it. Do guys know when a girl fakes the orgasm? It seems like guys only think I orgasm when I have discharge come out of my body. I don't think they realize that you can ha
2006-11-20 07:05:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have an orgasm, but not actually "squirt" if you know what I mean. To be honest sometime I just like I guy to pump himself inside of me and move in and out, but I don't worry about if he gives me an orgasm or not. some guy told me that was the whole purpose of having sex. I think it is one purpose, but it is not the only one. I think that if you get an orgasm you do, if you don't you don't but don't make it look like it is your fault if the person you are with did't get an orgasm.
I also remember sue johansen saying something about the person that can give the best orgasm is the person themselved through masterbation. Its just that we like to have other people kiss us and cuddle with us once it is over.
Isn't also true that if two people orgasm around the same time and there isn't a condom, the girl is not on birth control, and no pull out is being done, that pregancy is more likely to occur? Thats why I would think if he guy doesn't want a girl to get pregant that he would make
2006-11-20 07:10:52 · update #1
make sure she didn't orgasm at all. I just wonder if guys want to make sure the girl orgasms first so it looks like he is not selfish or being a jerk. I also wonder if its because if they do, the girls would brag about them and then they would have an easier time going to other girls and getting it from them.
when guys do have sex, are they trying to make it last longer for the girl. If they just wanted an orgasm, or let say the girl didn't care if she got the orgasm or not, then would the guy try to hurry up wiht the sex and get the orgasm as fast as he could? Jack rabbit sex is so much easier to deal with.
If a girl doesn't want a guy to go down on her, is that a bad thing, even if the girl goes down him?
2006-11-20 07:14:51 · update #2
sorry for all of the questions. I have been through many sex courses in school, but nobody has ever taught me that. I don't think a book is going to answer those questions honestly. I mean somethings with sex are not exactly how the book goes.
2006-11-20 07:18:44 · update #3
I can tell you that I have sex, maybe too much, and I have a little bit of an orgasm, but its not that intense, and if I don't get one, its not that big of a deal. I have heard that other girls feel the same way. I just wonder how much guys really care about the girl getting the orgasm.
2006-11-20 07:20:43 · update #4
I am no expert, but believe we give ourselves an orgasm probrably 98% of the time. We like to think we are making others have one, or someone is giving us one, but think about the movements and rhythm you do during sex; you are moving in that fashion, because that is the style that is most likely gonna get "you" off.
Have you ever been with a person that was in the right place, you were about to get yours, and they stopped that rhythm and now you have to start from scratch all over again?
Like I said, I am no expert, but you can be with a not so great lover and still get yours.
2006-11-20 07:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, if you are not in a serious relationship and a guy says that he want you to orgasm first, it is an ego trip for him. If a guy really cared about a women he would not be having sex with her until they were in a serious relationship.
Yes some women do not have an orgasm during sex, some can only climax from masturbation. and some woman just can't have an orgasm, ever!!!
The guy that said that all girls orgasm, is just wrong!!
Most guys cannot tell, nor do they care if a woman fakes an orgasm. For the most part, all they care about it their own climax.
The ONLY purpose of SEX is to have a baby. If just happens to fell really really good, so we do it for the pleasure as well!!!
Masturbation can give you a really great orgasm, but there is nothing quite like to feeling of your husband thrusting his penis inside you with the full intent of getting pregnant. That creates the ultimate orgasm.
Pregnancy and orgasm have nothing to do with each other. All that matters is that his sperm enters your vagina. He does not even need to be inside you for that to happen. If he squirts, or drips on your vagina, the sperm will enter you, and can swim to your uterus and make you pregnant.
Guys will try to extend the length of sex for a couple of reasons. Most of which are selfish. They want to talk about how good they are, it feels great being inside a woman, so making the sex last longer gives him more pleasure. And there are some guys that do care about a girl, even in casual sex, and want her to enjoy it.
If she enjoys it, she will tell others about him, plus it makes it easier for him to get insider her next time.
If your having Jack rabbit sex, your doing it for the wrong reason. You should only be letting a guy inside you if you really want him there, Letting him screw you, just for his pleasure kinda makes you a slut. Especailly if you are not in a loving, long time relationship.
It's okay for a girl not to want a guy to go down on her. It depends on her needs at the moment. Sometimes that feels good, sometimes it doesn't He needs to understand that and help satisfy you the way you want to be satisfied.
Is sounds like you may be having a little to much sex. You seem to be less concerned about who your partner is, and what you get from it. Having sex with somebody should be a very special time. You need to enjoy it as much as the guy does. If you don't feel like having sex, than don't. If the guy doesn't understand that, you need to find another guy, because he is just using you for sex, and doesn't really care for you.
2006-11-24 05:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always try to make the girl orgasm first, second and third. Then, it's my turn.
2006-11-20 08:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,you just asked so many questions.Read a book babe
2006-11-20 07:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...I am boy.
2006-11-20 07:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋