I am 23 years old, my husband doesn't want to have a baby at the young age, but i want to, i failed my studies in the bussiness school last year, this year i couldn't go to school but study by internet, i think to get back to college later on, i want my mother to take care of my baby, my mother lives in another country,my mother would love to take care of the baby and she is able to do it, my husband refuse that. I don't know what to do, i am quite frustrated...
2006-11-20 06:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
give him some time
:> peace
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2006-11-23 17:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. Many people might say your 2 young .. but I'm the type that thinks for 2day not 2morrow. I was almost in the same situation. 2 months ago I gave birth 2 my 1st born son. I was also 23 yrs old when I became pregnant; it was an unexpected pregnancy. I had all kinds of emotions running when I found out, my boyfriend was not happy, at first he wanted me 2 abort, and I contemplated on doing it at the time,but now, he is the happiest dad. In the end it has been the BEST thing that has happened 2 me. Thank God I kept my son! It has not been easy, but I enjoy it. I was in school throughout my pregnancy and I went back a week after I gave birth. My mom takes care of my child when I'm gone but I don't work. I hope your mom can come to this country to take care of your child. My son has been my inspiration to finish school, and I will finish for him. It is difficult and there r financial struggles. If I had a second chance I would still have my baby now. Good luck sweetie.
2006-11-20 15:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Izzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.... wait a minute why would you want to have a baby if your planning to go to school. You shouldn't plan on having a child if your not going to be the one raising it. This almost like talking to an out of control teen, who wants to have a child of her own, and cant take care of it, because she barely take cares of herself. Back to the subject..... What you should do is go back to school, and when your done and have a nice job. Maybe after that you should consider having a baby and maybe your husband will approve. And why would you want to pend your responsibilities on your mother even if shes willing to take care of YOUR CHILD. Anyway....... think about it because you have awhile to make a baby. You would want to be apart of your baby's life every second.
2006-11-20 14:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby isn't a fallback for failing out of school. Having a baby is a lifetime commitment, and it's your commitment, not your mom's. You and your husband shouldn't have a baby until both of you are completely committed to raising the child. You two need to sit down and figure out what to do.
2006-11-20 14:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have a baby then give it to your Mother, in another country, to raise? Wait till you are totally ready...get your education over....then have your baby(s)....You should raise your OWN children....wait till you CAN.
2006-11-20 14:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by SCARLETT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If YOU, yourself cannot take care of your own child then it's not wise to have one.
2006-11-20 14:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont deserve a baby then
2006-11-20 15:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by blonderosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋