My bf is violent he does do drugs but I love him soo muchhecan be reallysensitive and caring but..
Today he was like kissing me in the neck etc..And i told him to stop cause I wasnt feeling soo good and I was like pushing him off of me but he just kept on resisting then HE HIT ME!!!!!!
he told me to get lost but I dont know wha tto do he was on drugs at the tym do y'all think he would do it again if he wasnt on drugs?? Im so sore pls help!!He hit me right in the face with like the palm of his hand My nose is soo numb im really scared pls help he is asleep right now thanks!!!Peace God Bless§§§
2006-11-20 06:40:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it will get worse. Find someone else better.
NOW !!
2006-11-20 06:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh honey. there is no excuse - drunk or drugged to the eyeballs for anyone to hit you. i think you already know the answer to your question. love is a wonderful and strange thing but it doesn't mean that you have to be a punching bag! i am sUre when ur bf sobers up he will apologise and say it will never enough. but in my opinion once is TOO MANY! of course u r bound to feel that u want to help him but he needs to get help and actively stop taking drugs and then learn to control his temper. first of all u need to make a decision and stand by it, tell him he will lose u if he carries on like this. I am sure if he loves u he will accept that he has a problem. Do not let him talk u round. forgiveness and trust has to be earned.
the next time he hits u he could do even more damage.
good luck and all the best
♥
2006-11-20 06:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh may goodness, that is a serious thing. if he hit you one time, or a thousand times he is not worth the **** on your shoes.
please don't let him fool you and use the drugs as an excuse.
and if your not feeling good he should have been sympathetic, and held you. instead he violating you.
if you are still sore, then you need to go to the hospital. no man is worth the time of day if they are going to use you for there punching bag.
before you know it he will take your self esteem and tear it down. he will make you feel trap ed, and useless. he will keep playing those mind games w/ you and just keep doing the same crap to you.
honey you really need to get out. i know you love him, but that is not enough to keep you in this terrible relationship.
i know it's easier said then done. but if you don't get out, it's going to get worst.
he'll say he is sorry, but you can bet he will do it again.
love yourself and think of yourself and get out.
please get out you don't want your family to go to your funeral.
because you loved him.
i will most certainly pray for you.
go to the hospital, it sounds like he did damage to you.
go before it's to late.
tell them the Truth about what happened, he needs to get help for the drug and his temper. don't be afraid, and don't protect him, after all he is the one in the wrong all the way.
2006-11-20 07:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by tabatha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him once they get away with hitting you once it keeps happening ive been there and i know how hard it is though i was married to one and had three kids i kept hoping he would change and that if i only supported him enough he could change but the truth is they don't. Im now away from him and a lot happier it was really hard at first but trust me trying to help them and get them to change isn't worth it i spent six years trying. Depending on how scared you are of him if you leave if he'll come after you or not you might want to get the police involved for a restraining order against him alhtough alot of people don't stop coming around just because you have a restraining order if he violated it he could go to jail then you wouldn't have to worry. I know you want him to change and you love him but please just go its not worth it.
2006-11-20 06:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by anon a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way that relationship is going is down.
are you prepared to have him bring you down with him?
if i were you i'd tell him to look you up after he's been off the drugs for three years.
he used the palm of his hand and not his fist because there's less change of bleeding. he may attack your back and if he damages your kidneys you could have seriously major health problems not to mention a very painful back...
you need to leave him if you love him because he wouldn't want to be doing this to you if he was in his right mind and even when he's not on drugs the relationship will suffer because he's come off them and his personality and his life experience is different now. besides, he willl be sober we looks for his next fix.
leave him. if he loves you he will understand.
2006-11-20 06:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack up all ur stuff and Leave his place. trust me, this is not a good sign. there's no excuse, if he is on drugs, that's bad for ur health if he can't control himself =T.
just cuz he CAN be sensitive and caring doesn't mean he IS. and obviously a lot of the times he's NOT.
don't let Anyone treat u like that.. u both should be Strong, Independent, Healthy, Positive peopel who come together and make life BETTER... not pull eachother down. good luck, and work on urself and ur life so that u are not around negative people~~~
2006-11-20 06:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, then help him out of the drug habbit. The addiction is dangerous to you and the relationship. Else, opt out of the relationship cause I'm very sure there is no guarantee that he wouldn't hit you when he is not on drugs.
2006-11-20 06:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by saintbeng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave while you can. No one should ever put their hands on you. He obviously needs help. Please don't stick around to see what happens next. If he was willing to hit you once, then he will be willing to do it again. And I'm sure it will only get worse. You don't deserve to go through this and you shouldn't have to see him on drugs either.
Good Luck
2006-11-20 06:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im afraid that he wont never be himself while on drugs. drugs are a escape route or something to hide behind because one thing and another. no one should really hit anyone but it does happen which is no excuse. its up to you put up with him or help him off drugs or you may have to leave him and it will all be very scarey.
2006-11-20 06:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. They have ZERO tollerance for this type of behavior. I would say simply "dump him," and that should be obvious, you have to leave him. I bring the cops into this cuz he has to learn that there will be repercussions or else the next gal he's will will go through the same thing.
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2016-10-04 04:24:30 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋