I have been freinds with a married women for 4 years, and have gotten close the last 2 months. About a month again said she liked me, kissed me passionately and then stopped saying we could't go because she was married. Since that time, she said she wants get to know me better and we had a discussion about so personal issues in her past, but now she hardly talks to me. I have made the mistake of emailing her a couple times (3 times in 2 weeks) inviting for coffee. The last email, a week ago, I sent told her that I like her as well, but if she doesn't want to persue a relationship with me I am okay with that and I will follow her lead as our relationship is redefined. I haven't hear back.
Any suggestions on how to keep an appropiate relationship
2006-11-20 06:37:14 · 8 answers · asked by Phil R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop talking to her. it's just done. u like her more than a friend, u can NEVER go back to "just friends"...!!! u are trying to contact and talk to her and be nice to her cuz u LIKE her, not cuz u just wanna support her marriage. come on.... be a man and Let Her Go.
if she divorces her husband and goes for u , fine. but Respect Marriage, and her distancing herself from u. MOVE ON w/ ur life, work on urself, and learn to be a Happy, Confident, Positive, Independent Man who will make a great husband someday..and find a woman who Deserves it.. not a dream fantasy who is already taken. good luck~
2006-11-20 06:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are swimming in dangerous waters!! After all this woman is married. Not only would you be a homewrecker if you dipped where you shouldn't be dipping. Let this woman know that you can only be friends with her and nothing else. Stay away from real deep personal issues!!! Friends DO NOT need to tell everything.
2006-11-20 14:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_treats_4_u33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she shouldn't be stepping out on her relationship with her husband.. You two can be friends but in an appropriate way. And as long as her husband know about it. But I would personally leave it alone.. Maybe she has come to her senses and felt it necessary not to talk to you any more. so just leave it alone. If she wants to talk, she know where you are ok.
2006-11-20 14:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by gamustanggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Ask her if you can get together with your girlfriend and her husband for dinner one evening. But I suggest you stop involving yourself with a married woman. Sometimes husbands get really angry about their wives dating and kissing other men.
2006-11-20 14:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take things easy and be yourself. Go with the flow and don't rush yourself and don't rush her. If she keeps refusing and rejecting your invitations, maybe she really is not interested in you. Good luck and hope things work out well for you!
2006-11-20 14:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember that she is someones wife. try to avoid meeting her in person because that may lead to an affair. an make her understand that you respect her marriage and that you do do not want to be a home breaker
2006-11-20 14:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has not been responding b/c she is trying to figure out weather or not she still loves her husband and why she is having feelings for you. give her some time. ifshe wants to continue a relatonship with you she will let you know.
2006-11-20 14:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best suggestion is that you just stay e-mail buddies... you should never cross the lines of matrimony... those are sacred and I think maybe she has realized that she went further than she should have. just step back and give her time and while your doing that think about what your doing
2006-11-20 14:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋