I like this guy but his behaviour is really baffling, can anyone help me get to the bottom of it. Basically, it's like this cycle. We start by eye contact, getting on to flirting, the chemistry is extremely strong, we get into each others personal space all the time. We get a bit closer, and then end up kissing, etc, (we haven't slept together). I try to make contact and it gets a bit strange, awkward for a while and then the cycle starts all over again. I thought that he didn't want anything serious, which i accepted, but then i found out that he had been asking people about me, about boyfriends etc. why would he do that if he didn't like me. he's not a shy guy, so it can't be that? I don't get it. what am i missing?
2006-11-20 06:31:48 · 7 answers · asked by Mand 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i were u , i'd continue to live my own life, and have FUN... and wait til he contacts u.. like u said, he is NOT shy, so u don't want to get too attached w/o any information! if he is interested, he WILL do something eventually... and u've already tried to contact him and it "scares" him away. just live ur life to the Fullest! look Good, feel good, be happy, confident, independent...have lots of friends, interests, good relationships w/ family, etc... the more happy and confident and Positive u are, the more attractive u will be. make sure he will regret if he lets u get away! :)
2006-11-20 06:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess, you are not in the right relationship. A guy who is epileptc as from the daing point would be epileptic when in the real thing. I advice you to look for a greener pasture.
2006-11-20 06:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by saintbeng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he likes the attention and excitement but might be worried that he might get found out is he on his own or in a relationship maybe thats why he is finding out things about you ?
2006-11-20 06:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds as though you want some think serious and he don't,stay friends but keep your eyes op pen for Mr right
2006-11-20 06:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds weird, maybe you better leave him alone for a few days and see if he makes any effort to find you?
2006-11-20 06:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not shy around other people. But maybe shy around you.
2006-11-20 07:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Reaper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him, and tell him how you feel... you'll probably be pleasantly surprised..
2006-11-20 08:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by muppet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋